cummin on my face

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Registered: 05-17-2004
cummin on my face
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Mon, 05-17-2004 - 6:43pm
My first time post. My boyfriend keeps cummin on my face when he knows I don't like it.It happened three times and I asked him nicely to stop it.Its not the worst thing, but this last time he actually held my head and it pissed me off.Why do guys like to do this?

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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 5:17pm
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Wed, 05-19-2004 - 3:38am
>>I love giving facials, have done it hundreds of times, but the odds of my doing it with less than 100% enthusiasm on my partner's part would be precisely zero.<<

I'll third that.

Regardless of what he's doing, he's gone and done it again after you have told his that you feel 'degraded'. I would feel pretty bad about things if my new g/f told me whatever I'd done had made her feel degraded. I'd be sucking up and trying to apologise, not doing the same thing some more.

Get rid of the control-freak loser.

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 9:54am
This guy has some issues, that go deeper than just not listening. He has some sort of screw loose, or tramatic damage done to his cortex. You have told him, and told him, and told him again. Get the hint. Leave this schmuck before something worse happens. This guy has something wrong upstairs, that only a shrink or a stand is going to fix. Good luck, but I would highly suggest teaching him a lesson. Loose him, and find yourself someone you deserve. Someone who will treat you the way you expect to be treated. I wish you all the best of luck.
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Registered: 10-10-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 10:39am
Agree totally. It's not the facials, it's that he persists in doing something you have asked him not to do.

We're all wired differently and there's no reason why you should have to spend two seconds on the why and wherefor. Hey, Donald Trump for some reason or other apparently doesn't like to shake people's hands. So people who respect him and want to curry his favor presumably don't do it. They don't ask him why, and they don't persist despite his request.

Or, closer to home perhaps, and from another thread, no matter how horny a woman is, I do not like to have sex with a woman during her period. It's just how I am. It doesn't mean I'm boring in bed, and I would immediately distance myself from anyone who demanded that I do it ... again, it's just disrespect.

Good sex, it seems to me, is all about incredible respect -- awe, even.

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 1:55pm
My 2 cents, in two words:

Dump him.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 4:45pm
"Its not the worst thing, but this last time he actually held my head and it pissed me off.Why do guys like to do this?"

Why ] guys like to do this is still beyond me & the Mrs., other than the need to add the excitement of naughtiness to the experience. Just don't know.

I'm extremely of my wife.

I protect her.

I am there for HER needs, not my own.

That is the type of guy she chose to keep. How 'bout you?

 

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Registered: 10-10-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 5:49pm
para1995's post is perhaps the best of all. As a fair lass, you deserve someone who worships and protects you. That's the biological bargain, pretty much ... it really is. As I said I looooove giving facials but boy, if the woman in question wasn't totally into it, it's the very last thing I would _ever_ do.

So get rid 'o' this lad and get someone who worships and protects you. Not a moment to waste!

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