Cumming together?

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Registered: 01-22-2002
Cumming together?
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Wed, 03-02-2005 - 8:28am
What is better to you, cumming togther or cumming several times? I once had a lover who was the first and only person to say "what about me". I will never forget that. Now with DW, i will try an get her to orgasm with my hand, then i will go down and try to get her to orgasm with my toungue, then i will enter her, usually from behind on the edgeof the bed with me standing. She will often ask me to orgasm with her instead. I get worried but her "not getting hers".
Ladies...which would you rather have...multiple or mutual?

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Sat, 03-05-2005 - 10:42am

I love simultaneuos orgasms for two reasons, neither of which has yet been mentioned:

1) The spasms in her vagina brought about by her orgasms milk my ejaculating penis as I orgasm. Similarly, the pulsing engorgement when I orgasm (which she does feel) enhances her orgasms by giving her something more substantial to grip.

2) The Upsuck Theory. A woman's orgasm facilitates conception by sucking the man's semen up into her uterus. My girlfriend and I are not trying to conceive, but the thought of me ejaculating my semen into her "sucking" uterus really gets both of us going.

Mind you, she also has multiple Os, so it's not a matter of having to choose. She's got the best of both worlds.

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 1:17am

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For me it's just the opposite, and it's only happened once. He climaxed just as mine was beginning and his lack of movement shortened mine. He's the first man I've had vaginal orgasms with; normally he climaxes right after me, or as mine is near ending.

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