cunnilingusproblems- why won't he go dow
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cunnilingusproblems- why won't he go dow
| Wed, 09-01-2004 - 8:04am |
my boyfriend says he doesn't enjoy giving me cunnilingus because it smells bad but i don't understand why this is. is is just that he doesn't like the way i naturally smell or could it be caused by something im doing/ or not doing? it would help if i knew how it was suppposed to smell but i obviously have nothing to compare it to. i havent had this problem with other men before. help!

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Regardless, some individuals enjoy going down, and some just don't.
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The advise you are too immature or keep trying, you'll get used to it was never given by me.
Since you're able to smell differences yourself, then I'm also led to believe he smells something not so natural and just simply isn't as turned on by it. Just a guess. Going back to the doc/gyno is NEVER a bad idea, I'm pretty big on playing it safe anyway.
I'd really let the physician know your issue and that you DO have concerns about your health and the effect this has on your love life as well. For all you know, you'll get GREAT advice on how to deal with this. Remember to try that Sexual Health board as well:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-bhgensex
Teach us what works and what doesn't work once you've addressed this, okay? Good luck! :)
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Do any of you ladies know any women who would tell their partner to to that?
WHat about you ladies?
Would you tell your partner that's what you would want them to do?
Thanks,
Howie_t
personally, i don't get why a woman would refuse you if you've never tried it before though. try approaching the subject gently to find out if she's had past issues with it and thats why she's reluctant to do it again then remind her thats she's in a new relationship now with a different person and she doesn't know what she might be missing!she shouldn't judge a new aprtner on previous bad experiences. equally, don't put too much pressure on, she might just be against it.
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