Curious? Or for real...
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Curious? Or for real...
| Wed, 07-27-2005 - 9:45pm |
So I enjoy watching females in porn having sex/giving each other oral sex, whatever. Does this mean I'm gay? I'm with my boyfriend, who I love very very much. And I enjoy sex with him. But I can't help but wonder what it would be like to have sex with a female, and to see what it's like to go down on a female. What's wrong with me?

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I don't think Tish could have worded it any more perfectly.
Sounds more like a 'curiosity' turn-on to whatever the sexual experience would simply be like...as opposed to being turned on simply because its another female. Its the that caught your attention by what I've read, not the other body involved and thats it.
Now, hypothetical thought, even at this time in the morning, LOL!...would here and there view it as a sign of crossing the border, sorta speak? Sure, we're all different with different views. From the standpoint so far though, seems like its simply curiosity and not a pursuit after the same gender. Best guess.
C H A R A C T E R
Why would you consider him gay?
I don't think there is anything wrong with you at all. You deffinately sound curious though. In my opinion if you are in a committed relationship that you cherish wipe the thoughts right out of your head because threesomes have separated many. However if you think you will simply not be able to live out your life in this curiosity I have a talk with your signifucant other and see what his take is on it.
Good Luck!
Nothing is "wrong" with you. You just sound bi-curious to me and many people are.
Girl on girl does nothing for me personally, just watching two women kiss makes me squirmy. But many women and men say that seeing same sex activity is erotic to them. Not sure that too many men would admit to it though.
Edited 7/28/2005 5:38 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
I like the *idea* of female/female action ... but the practice itself doesn't appeal to me.
I think that's a perfectly natural and very common response. Use it to your advantage. Dh likes to watch female/female porn, so I just enjoy it with him.
The JACKAL
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
Nothing at all is wrong with you. You are perfectly normal, whatever normal is. A lot of women are curious.
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