Curiousity question for the guys....
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Curiousity question for the guys....
| Sat, 10-09-2004 - 12:01pm |
Very curious to understand: why does it matter if a woman swallows?
It seems that guys like it so much (I know mine does, and from reading various posts here seems it is common). I don't mind doing it from time to time, but I just don't understand why having him come in my mouth is a different feeling for him, than him doing it and me swallowing?..
Anyone can explain this?

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I agree with Kat, there are many guys just happy to get oral sex and the swallowing doesn't matter to them.
For the men out there who actually DO enjoy it, I've read from many different message boards across the net that its all psychological. It does absolutely NOTHING to increase the physical pleasure obviously.
For the purpose of comparing only, many have described it as the same as a woman hearing "I love you" during lovemaking, or receiving more and more gazing eye-contact, or anything else for that matter that does 'nothing' to add to the physical pleasure but does for many actually add to the feeling of being that much more accepted.
Sounds crazy at first, but its true for many of those guys.
We all have different needs and even different ways of feeling accepted. Some ways just seem more intense to us individually than other ways do. Of course its always debatable and to some even laughable when discussing whether or not this way or that way is ridiculous or more on the normal side, which really isn't needed, lol, but over and over and over and over again...
...we'll always end back up to the ol' "to each his/her own" clause anyway.
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Mr. Para
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I also have a physical plus. The act is carried out to completion, so my (gentle) thrusting into her mouth doesn't have to be stopped. It's similar to pulling out of a vagina before ejaculating...the pleasure and action is interrupted. She could, of course, go to the bathroom and spit it out, but there's a break in the after sex cuddling.
I've heard one guy tell me its a great turn on!
- it definitly feels better (physical)
- my smile lasts a couple of days longer when my wife swallows (mental)
- a lot of men are proud of their sperm (strange discription, not exactly the right words, hard thing to describe) and appreciate when their partner accepts it completely
- my wife is proud to be a swallower not a spitter and I think that is cool
Hi baci:
Swallowing ejaculate simular to ACCEPTING the guy.
Well, that doesn't mean that SHE would think so though.
But I think that's the ultimate in consideration and love to think of your wife's overall experience, too, and not just expect her to choke it down so you can feel fulfilled.
Edited 10/11/2004 3:40 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
I have no problem with allowing my DH to finish in my mouth but he could care less what I do with it after the fact, so I spit because it's my preference.
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