Dating way older

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Registered: 06-13-2005
Dating way older
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Mon, 06-13-2005 - 10:34pm
Okay so here is the bare bones of it.....he is 47 i am 27 we get on great and he happens to be a multimillionaire. we have tonnes in common and i really want to be with him. the age kind of scares me and the money is intimidating but i think i can look past that. my big question is that i want to finally get it on with him but want to be able to be adventursome and seductive but i am such a goofball i would probably try a striptease and end up being rushed to emergency with a concusion......any ideas
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 12:35am
Why does he want to be with you?
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Registered: 06-13-2005
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 8:33am
We have alot in common and have a great time just hanging out. i think that he enjoys the fact that i have a sense of adventure and i enjoy the fact he has a sense of humour. there is no pressure from either side (which is nice) i like the maturity of the relationship. i like the fact that he isnt trying to 'find himself' or isnt constantly switching jobs and i think he loves the fact that i am self supporting. it is a great thing to be able to get up and say hey i want to do this today and actually be able to do it. the age is definately a different thing but i think i can deal with that.......
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 10:19am

Hi,

Based on your age gap relationship you might want to visit the May December Relationships Board.

As for a suggestion on seduction... I'm sure these fine folks here can give you an idea or two..:)
~Silver~

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 10:35am
Will you adopt me as your long lost 22 y.o. daughter and then spoil me rotten? I'm needing a 2 week trip to the Bahamas before my baby is born...I'll never ask for anything again in my life if you two adopt me as your love child.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 11:30am

How do you know that he would welcome a sexual relationship with you? If he's made no move towards that, then he may view you as a great friend and confidant....only.

There is no reason why you couldn't enjoy a wonderful relationship with a 27 yr. old, don't get me wrong, but if he hasn't initiated something yet, that could indicate the type of feelings he has.

I always suggest just being yourself in the bedroom, especially at first. Trying to force yourself to be seductive in a unfamiliar way will only make you feel more uncomfortable and unsure of yourself. Start with a kiss and go from there. Feel him out and see how he responds.

But IF you do decide to attempt a seduction, just be aware that it could go either way so be prepared.