Deception

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Registered: 06-19-2008
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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 7:12pm

If anyone knows me at all, they can tell you i am a pretty sexual person. I discuss it a lot in random conversations with my guy friends or girl friends and i'm very open about it. The only problem is that i AM indeed a virgin. Now being a virgin i dont mean i havent done ANYTHING. Sure i've kissed guys, done some other stuff but no actual sex as in penetration. Now this wouldn't matter much usually but it seems as if a lot of people i have discussed sex with recently don't believe me when i say i am a virgin. I don't want to change who i am and not be sexual but i dont want people believing something thats not true. Any advice?

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 8:37pm

What does it matter if they believe you or not?

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Registered: 05-04-2008
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 8:41pm
I really think you should stop caring so much about what other people think.

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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 8:48pm
My advice would be to stop worrying so much about what other people think, and just enjoy being who you are.


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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 9:50pm

Hi and welcome mind_overpowers_all. Nice to meet you. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks. Stick around, the people here are awesome!


Why does it bother you what people think? Like someone else said, you can't please everyone. Besides, you're the only one you have to please. As long as you know the truth, that's all that matters.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 12:18am

Welcome to the board, mind_overpowers_all.

Does it bother you that they don't believe you in general about this, or is it because being a virgin is very important to you? I tend to agree with the other members that what others think isn't what's important. You have to do what's right for you, and believe in yourself.



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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 12:36am

You said yourself that you're a very sexual person, and you talk openly to anyone and everyone about it.

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Registered: 03-03-2008
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 3:50am

Be who you are.

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Registered: 03-03-2008
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 8:43am
Just how may people have you "discussed" this with?
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Registered: 08-09-2007
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 11:21am
I totally agree with Sakura said. If you are openly discussing "other" sexual deeds that could be why they think you are not a virgin. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 27 and I was doing everything else under the sun and no one could believe that I still haven't actually had intercourse. But it was true. I really didn't care what they believe. People will believe what they want to believe and make assumptions. All that matters is that YOU know the truth and smile and laugh at them when they say otherwise. I've learned, if someone is dead set on an opinion of you, there is NOTHING you can do to change it. So I say be happy and continue to do what you do! ;)



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Registered: 05-04-2008
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 8:26pm

Hey Cherron,


Glad to see that I wasn't the only one en route to the old age home when I finally lost mine, I was 24.


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