Define Sexy!

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Define Sexy!
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Fri, 07-13-2007 - 8:39pm

Appearance, persona, attitude, clothing, etc;
What encompasses sex appeal in your opinion?

Also, does your idea of sexy alter when referring to your significant other…..for instance; Is a tight low cut top, sexy on a stranger but sluttish on your wife?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: passionplus
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 9:04pm

To me sexy is so much more than clothing. It's how you carry yourself. How confident you are. Someone can be dressed very casually with a tank top and jeans and be sexy. Or dressed the same and be slutty. It all depends on how they're acting. You can also be dressed in a long skirt and buttoned up blouse and be extremely sexy. It so much deeper than what you can see.

I think my hubby looks his best in jeans and black leather vest.



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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 9:18pm

I agree wholeheartedly with nhgal. Often, when I find people sexy, I can't even put my finger on one thing in particular that makes that person sexy. It's a package deal.

I find my DH sexy in different ways at different times. Sometimes it's the way he's dressed -- like when he's wearing his motorcycle boots and jeans and has just gotten off of his bike. He has a very pleasing and confident stride then. Sometimes when we are just talking and he gets a certain look on his face, I find that sexy as hell. I could sit here and think of more and more examples. I could go on and on with different examples if I sat here thinking for a while, but I think the main point is sex appeal comes from a variety of things and exists on different people in different ways.



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Registered: 06-12-2006
In reply to: passionplus
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 10:30pm

Hmmmm, I think it changes depending on who it is.


Strangers I think it is the overall sex appeal, their smile and walk may get me.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: passionplus
Fri, 07-13-2007 - 11:45pm

Sexy, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. What one man considers sexy, another might consider trashy, or even boring. When it comes to partners, some men love their partner to wear low cut tops, tight jeans, etc., while another man wants her to wear a turtleneck sweater and long skirt.

I think it has less to do with clothing than with demeanor.

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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 11:04am

I pretty much agree with everyone else here. Its an attitude thing. But I do have to admit that if a man can talk to me about things that shows he is intelligent that definitely gets my motor revving in high gear!

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Registered: 10-28-2006
In reply to: passionplus
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 4:49pm

I agree with every one on this one. Clothes just add to the sex appeal.
I find DH very sexy when he wears a suite ummm love that! I love the way
he walks to very sexy. I love when he gets a stern addittude I just love it.

As far as strangers go sexy comes in all shapes and sizes.

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Registered: 06-25-2006
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 10:00am
I agree with all of the previous posters. A sexy woman is one who exudes self confidence and attitude. She is open, fun, and leads you to believe their is something more to her that you would like to know. A hint of mystery is always good too. Many of the woman I've found sexy would not be considered centerfold material but just the way they carried themselves made me want to know them better. Clothing helps but it really does not really matter. It is attidude, self confidence and openess that turns me on. Thank goodness my DW has it all.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 1:36pm
Welcome to the board phillyden, and thanks for posting. Sounds like you and your DW are both lucky in love!


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Registered: 07-05-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 3:47pm

Definitely the attitude... something outgoing, humorous, playful and flirty. The best way to be seen as 'Sexy' is to act confident, playful and make eye contact with a slight smile.

My wife is starting to wear clothes that make her look more sexy, showing more cleavage. I like the little shock of jealousy I feel when I know other guys are going to look at her with the same lust that I have when I look at her. Knowing she's going home with me makes my day.

I like sexy makeup sometimes too, especially the eyes and lips. My wife says she doesn't know how to do makeup like that. Anyone know of any website that describe how to do sexy, porn star-like, makeup?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 5:21pm
I don't know of any websites that show how to make yourself up to look sexy. Why not find some sexy pictures you like and ask her to play with trying make up that way. She could probably also check taking the picture to a local salon for help learning how to apply the makeup for that look.


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