Definition of BJs

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Registered: 10-07-2004
Definition of BJs
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Fri, 12-03-2004 - 2:13pm
Last night I was having a discussion with my boyfriend about bjs. The subject came up on another board that sometimes men just prefer them over sex. I asked my boyfriend if that was something that he would prefer and he told me that if there was something that he wasn't getting from me that he wanted that he would tell me. He didn't really answer the question but upon further discussion realized that his definition and my definition were different. He thought that since I went down on him that he classified that as a bj where I classified it as giving head. My definition of a bj is the actual finishing (where the "blow" comes in). What are other people's definition? Just curious....

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 2:19pm

<<<(where the "blow" comes in)>>>


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Registered: 10-07-2004
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 2:26pm
Should make for some interesting conversation. I don't know that anyone ever even defined it the way I did, maybe it's my own definition. It's why I posted the question.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 2:28pm

LOL


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Registered: 05-27-2004
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 2:40pm

"Blow Job", "giving head", "going down".....and probably a hundred others that I've never heard or forgotten are just euphemisms for Fellatio.

Since I've never read the "official" fellatio guide, I'm not sure if finishing the job is required or not. (If finishing IS required, it would sure "gross" some people out!)

Whatever it is, or whatever you call it......it's fun, isn't it? ;-)

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Registered: 06-17-2003
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 3:10pm
I've never understood why it's called "giving head" by some people. I've always thought a true blow job was start to finish orally, and so I agree with your definition. My DH refers to an incomplete BJ (oral without completion) as "c*ck teasing".
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 3:17pm
Why would he consider it teasing if he gets off in another way?

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Registered: 06-17-2003
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 3:29pm
Maybe it's just my DH that feels this way. Once I start giving him a blow job he gets so caught up in his pleasure he doesn't want me to stop until he cums in my mouth. Fine with me!
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Registered: 10-07-2004
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 3:39pm
Is he able to go again immediately after that? Maybe I'm selfish but if I'm being intimate with my man I want the sex too! Maybe that's why I have two version of oral (i.e. bj and head). I like to go down on my boyfriend and then I like to have the sex.
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Fri, 12-03-2004 - 4:07pm
I agree with your boyfriend.
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Registered: 06-17-2003
Fri, 12-03-2004 - 5:02pm
He can go again in about 20 - 30 minutes but we usually don't, except on weekend mornings when there is more time. Usually I've had mine first (oral) so I don't mind if we don't have intercourse after I've reciprocated with his BJ. Frequently, we just do oral on each other and then we go off to sleep. I guess we all have our preferences and habits as to how we enjoy sex.

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