Did we use the condem right?

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Registered: 02-08-2008
Did we use the condem right?
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Sun, 05-04-2008 - 2:18am
So I'm 22 and I just lost my virginity! : ) I was completely ready and just went for it!
: P So of course my guy used a condom but I was wondering if it was used completely right. He has experience but of course, being new to this, I was a little concerned. B/c of the whole me being a virgin thing, it hurt at first so he had to keep stopping, and pulling out, he sat down for a bit, had a blanket on top of him, which I didn't think would mess up the condom b/c I know that usually there IS a blanket on the bed! Would that, a blanket or pillow over his waist mess up the condom? Also, I noticed at times the condom, was maybe a little less then a quarter from the base of his penis, it NEVER came off though. I also noticed that when he moved in and out of me at times, the condom had kind of rolled up, almost like when I moved up then down on him, I was kind of rolling the excess condom 'skin' up over the ring, again it NEVER came of. We just rolled the ring back up closer to his base. Also, he lost his erection at times inside me and then got it back, it was a new experience for both of us, he had never been with a virgin and I was a virgin. Basically why I'm asking these questions is that I don't want to get pregnant!! Would any of what I said cause a concern for pregnancy? Could any of what I described have allowed semen to get inside me? Especially him losing his erection inside me at times. Do I need to take the morning after pill or something? I'm not too worried but I just want to be completely in the know about this whole new experience. Thank you! : )

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2008
Sat, 05-10-2008 - 6:26pm

Hon.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2008
Sun, 05-11-2008 - 1:17am
Are you safe, well, the average male ejaculation contains around 150 million sperm. It only takes one of those little suckers to do the job (make you pregnant). Even though captain midnight took a few breaks doesn't mean that any leaks occurred. Only if your boyfriend applied a lot of pressure on his willy that may have pushed out some of the semen thru the neck of the condom like a tube of toothpaste. The average volume of sperm ejaculated is between 3 to 5cc's. The condom can hold a pretty large volume of semen unless your boyfriend happens to a buffalo. The neck of the condom, the open rolled part is pretty tight like a rubber band giving

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