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| Sun, 12-04-2005 - 8:35pm |
DON'T THINK THIS IS A STUPID QUESTION...HERE IT GOES....CAN AN AVERAGE SIZE PENIS (APPROX 6in) FIND PLEASURE IN AN AVERAGE SIZE VAGINA (PER GYNECOLOGIST) THAT EXPERIENCES LOTS OF LUBRICATION? OR DOES THE PENIS NEED TO FEEL LOTS OF FRICTION TO BE PLEASURABLE TO THE MAN? IS THIS DEPENDENT ON THE MAN'S EMOTIONAL STATE ALSO?

I guess that would depend on the man.
Have you had complaints? Being well lubricated is also "average"....and with all these averages going on, I don't see where there would be a problem.
Don't forget one thing. I don't even know what an "average" sized vagina is....but no matter what size it is, it will relax just enough to envelop a penis. When a woman isn't aroused, her vaginal muscles are closed tight.......when she IS aroused, they relax only as much as they need to. They don't fall open into a gaping cavity.
Well, speaking as an average sized woman who produces plenty of natural lube, with an averaged sized DH.....yes, he can find pleasure just fine.
IF your guy has complained or you aren't feeling much yourself, then tissue off when necessary and change positions until you find one that provides more friction.
Believe me though, it's better to produce too much than too little!
The vagina doesn't stretch out.
I have a feeling that your husband is not comfortable with your new, self-taught, sexuality; he is perhaps even threatened by your empowerment.
May I ask about your cultural/ethnic backgrounds? Your ages?