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Dirty Talk?
| Sun, 12-23-2007 - 1:02am |
Ive been with my husband since we were teenagers, but he now is wanting to start to dirty talk. i have no experience in dirty talk, and ive read on ivillage how to. but i dont exactly know WHAT to say. He sure knows how to, but hes a pretty horny gu most of the time. lol. anyways, if you have any tips, or something, please tell me.

Welcome to the board, Elisabeth.
I find it's easiest to talk dirty when we're actually in the act of having sex. During that time when my breathing is intensified, I have little moans and gasps, then I just let some of the thoughts in my head slip out of my mouth. Once you begin, it gets easier and easier. I don't even think about saying things anymore. If I do say things that seem a little "unexpected", I usually giggle a little -- which is fun too.
To get started, if he's doing something that feels particularly nice, you might say "I love it when you *do* me like that" or "OMG, that feels so good". Once you start like that, and you find him reacting to it, it's very encouraging to open up even more.
If he's talking dirty to you, hopefully it's when things are really hot and heavy. I find that's when I respond the best to it, gets my mind and body more into whatever is happening at that time.
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I've had to teach myself to talk dirty, thats what men like. my issue is talking dirty when on the phone, thats hard for me, because I'm feeling nothing.
in bed, just let it flow, if he feels good inside of you say "you feel so good inside of me" " I love your d***", "it all yours (his name)", Tell him how big he is (even if he's not)............ This works for me when I'm ready for it to end!!! lol