dirty talk

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Registered: 09-05-2006
dirty talk
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Mon, 11-27-2006 - 2:51pm
Ok.. my boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him not really on the phone but more over im. But I am having a hard time being able to do it. I am not sure what my reservation is. I think in my head. Then when i go to say something i get embarassed or my mind goes blank. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can work on this? or any suggestions?? I really want to get over this and be able to do this with him and 4 him. Please help.
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Registered: 11-07-2003
In reply to: crazy8girl
Mon, 11-27-2006 - 7:52pm

Heh... I have the opposite problem. I can talk dirty over IM but I feel more awkward over the phone or in person.

My suggestion? Try reading some erotica for inspiration and to help you get "in the mood" before trying a naughty chat with him. It won't be fun for either of you if you're not *really* eager to pounce on him.