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dirty talk???
| Thu, 04-27-2006 - 12:54pm |
so me and my ex have been getting together every so often again for a round or two. but it weird now, all of a sudden he's very like...i guess...raunchy is the word. he wants me to talk dirty and to tell him what i want...i never did that before when we were together, and he never asked. it was always just good sex. so i got a little uncomfortable during it because he really wanted me to say something...i tried but i just couldnt get anything out, because i just dont talk like that...which is what i told him. so he's like it's just you and me, whats wrong. but he just doesnt seem to understand that i cant talk in that way. and it kinda ruined the mood a little. any thoughts???? (i think he's just been watching way too many pornos or something...hehe...but i def am not a porno chick) thanks!

Why are you wasting your time with your "ex"? Does it really matter what he wants? He's looking for "a round or two".....and he's getting it.
As long as you're continuing your relationship with your ex, you'll never move on. (Sex, with or without "dirty talk" isn't going to get him back!)
I watch a pretty good amount of porn and I don't hear much in the way of dirty talk. Hell, It'd be a miracle if they got men to say more than: Oh yeah, Oh yeah
There's nothing to be ashamed of, when you're naked and getting freaky, it's ok to talk freaky too. Start simple, tell him which body parts of his feel good against your body parts, just don't use the proper names like Penis and Vagina, not dirty :)
I was pretty bashful at first, but I've gone on to like it as it drives my DW crazy. it's not something we do each and every time either, otherwise it could get boring.
IF this getting together for a "round or two" is just meant to take care of your mutual occasional "needs", then do what you want to and nothing more. You don't owe him the experience of his life.
Why try to get over something or attempt to do something for someone you have no commitment to anymore? Save that for a real relationship.
Hi, snakegoddess.