Disgusting or not ?

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Disgusting or not ?
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Thu, 08-18-2005 - 7:53pm
I havent had time to buy condoms so SO and I have been having sex and pulling out. ( Yes I do know the consequences of pregnancy .. and both of us have been tested for STDs so thats not a worry ). Moving on. My SO asked if id swallow his load after he pulls out and i did. Now since his penis was in my vagina and then when straight into my mouth .. theres obviously vagina juices and such on his penis. Ladies and Gents .. do you think thats disgusting to do that? I didnt mind since its his penis and it was in MY vagina. Would you do it ? .. or would you tell your DH, SO no you wont swallow ?
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 12:35am
What medical school did you go to? Oral sex doesn't "cause" germs. And you don't GET "germs". You get infections. You get them from bacteria or viruses or fungi. Have you been missing your CE classes?
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Registered: 11-15-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 9:51am

Thanks Dakine.

lilkitty...Sorry, but I have a difficult time accepting that an ob/gyn, (basically an expert in female sexuality and sexual dysfunction) is asking questions on an Ivillage sex board. If you want honest answers from people, it is always best to be honest with them.

Peace.
Scott.

PS - In the future, if you want to convince people that you are a doctor that has gone through a minimum of four years college and eight to twelve years of medical school, use your spellcheck before posting.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 9:55am

Exactly. The two docs I work for tell patients "Well, it's a viral infection so antibiotics aren't going to work.." Along those lines. Not "You've got germs." (Sperms carry germs? lol.) But perhaps that's because I work in the medical field, not feel.

You'd think an Ob/Gyn would have access to effective BC too.




Edited 8/20/2005 9:56 am ET ET by tally33
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Registered: 04-17-2001
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 11:33am
Nothing at all disgusting about it. Do buy some condoms or go on birth control since the pull out methos isn't effective.
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 5:13pm

"PS - In the future, if you want to convince people that you are a doctor that has gone through a minimum of four years college and eight to twelve years of medical school, use your spellcheck before posting."

THANK YOU!!!! One of the docs I work for has atrocious handwriting, but his written statements are correctly spelled, punctuated and use correct grammar. And even as family docs, I can't imagine them going online to ask what is normal for sexual frequency. Normal is whatever you and your partner agree on!

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Sat, 08-20-2005 - 9:53pm
youre very right tish. and kitty when did i bring about anything about my SO being faithful or not? we are both clean of STDs and both shower TWICE a day. so i dont know what germs we are talking about dear. im on BC so nothing going to happen that Ill regret. =) we are cautious and know the cons but we are all set <3
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Registered: 10-19-2004
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 2:33am
Dear nympho, I find it extremely, extremely, and yes, extremely erotic when my lovely GF swallows in the same situation you speak of. I go down on her frequently because i have an oral fixation, and she returns the favor from time to time, and if you both do that and your okay with your own bodies, then theres nothing wrong. But then again, your listening to a guy that kisses his GF even when she has his cum on her mouth. I'm very very comfortable with my own body and all that "cums" with it, so as long as you can say that, its not someone elses place to decide whether its disgusting or not.
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Registered: 06-19-2005
Sun, 08-21-2005 - 9:51pm

It does not bother me either.

Denise

Loving and devoted wife to Bryan!!!

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 5:10pm
Sex can be wet ,sticky, slippery,tasty, not so tasty, smelly,good smelling,messy.....just the way I like it..;)
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Registered: 08-08-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 2:45pm

I thought it was possible that people's "good bacteria's" can clash?


My ex's dad said that he had to get circumcised because the extra skin held bacteria that irritated his partner. (not STD related) Would this be possible with oral sex? I thought the whole thing sounded funny...but I'm no doctor.


I think that if some higher power didn't want us doing something...we wouldn't be able to do it. It's ALL perfectly natural. (I just choose to not partake in swallowing.)

~*Kayla*~