Men do fake it. Why they do it I don't know, if a woman were to do it, its deeply insulting so why they do the same thing I have no idea.
To Rice71, I think that all marriages are different, and it is sad that you seem to have lost all will to try to respark your sex life. Surely this makes you deeply unhappy? If I were married, I would like to think I would keep my sex life alive, and keep myself as attractive as possible for my partner. I know some people just lose the attractive sparkle, because once married they see no need to bother, (check out Britney) but some don't. And have you tried to talk with your wife? It seems a shame that you seem to be willing letting this relationship go downhill without even the flicker of effort. Maybe you are putting the effort but from what you have posted, it sounds like you have just accepted this as a way of life and moving on. Telling your children that this is what happens is also in poor taste. They don't need to know that. Because when they come to get married, they will expect it, and will probably turn out just like you. My parents aren't close at all, but I intend my marriage to be very different to theirs. Because I want my children to grow up in a loving environment, and I want to still feel loved, attractive even when I'm fifty years old, with greying hair, wrinkles and saggy skin.( although I hope I never get that). Marriage isn't the end of all fun. It should be the beginning.
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Men do fake it. Why they do it I don't know, if a woman were to do it, its deeply insulting so why they do the same thing I have no idea.
To Rice71, I think that all marriages are different, and it is sad that you seem to have lost all will to try to respark your sex life. Surely this makes you deeply unhappy? If I were married, I would like to think I would keep my sex life alive, and keep myself as attractive as possible for my partner. I know some people just lose the attractive sparkle, because once married they see no need to bother, (check out Britney) but some don't. And have you tried to talk with your wife? It seems a shame that you seem to be willing letting this relationship go downhill without even the flicker of effort. Maybe you are putting the effort but from what you have posted, it sounds like you have just accepted this as a way of life and moving on. Telling your children that this is what happens is also in poor taste. They don't need to know that. Because when they come to get married, they will expect it, and will probably turn out just like you. My parents aren't close at all, but I intend my marriage to be very different to theirs. Because I want my children to grow up in a loving environment, and I want to still feel loved, attractive even when I'm fifty years old, with greying hair, wrinkles and saggy skin.( although I hope I never get that). Marriage isn't the end of all fun. It should be the beginning.
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