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do most guys do this????
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 7:55am |
Question for guys or girls. Just curious....in a newer relationship, do most guys typically "pull out"? Is this an intimacy issue, or are they just strictly not taking chances with pregnancy? Does this ever change, like once you've become exclusive or long term, and the girl is on the birth control, etc.?
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You said: And in answer to that question, of the nearly 20 lovers that I've had, I've never had a man pull out.
But there was a part two(really 3, but I'm eliminating the third for now) to the question posted. And since you've only had men who came inside of you, you can only answer the first part "do most guys pull out.
Some of the other posters did give the answers to part two(yes they can have a fear of pregnancy, and no they don't necessarily fear intimacy).
You may be qualified to say that it's not 'normal'(average) for a man to pull out.
However, you can't say whether a man who does pull out 'normally' has intimacy issues and fears pregnancy based on your experience.
P.S. From my own experience, a man who pulls out due to fear of pregnancy, is perfectly normal and doesn't necessarily have intimacy issues. Men who pull out, are more common than you think too.
Edited 11/2/2004 11:03 pm ET ET by nobodysfool2day
Intimacy issue??..perhaps, I mean, we're all speculating but I think in most cases guys want to make sure they're not givin away babies along with their loads...lol I think that would be the main reason why a guy would pull out.
Almost ALL of my male friends tend to pull out and/or have asked their gf's/partners if that is what they want.
Maybe it IS a generation thing, who knows. It's VERY common from what I'm exposed to. I'm @ a university where sex is everywhere..and it's something I hear about A LOT to tell the truth.
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