to do, or not to do...
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to do, or not to do...
| Sun, 06-17-2007 - 3:20pm |
well... i am a virgin and the guy that im with is not. we have a good time together and our relationship is mainly physical. while he's not pressuring me to "go all the way", i feel like that would be the next step. we don't have a great emotional connection, he is certainly not the love of the life, but he is very do-able. i'm wondering, should i just go ahead and get this virginity thing out of the way, or wait. personally, i have no special feelings about my state of virginhood. my only qualm is, is that i am wondering should i wait for "mr.right", wherever he may be, or just go ahead. what was you guy's first experience like? was it special, or do youjust do it and you regret it now that you didn't wait.

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I lost my virginity to someone I was in love with at the time, but I didn't choose to wait until there was someone special in my life, that's just how it happened. Given the opportunity, I would have lost it a lot sooner, because to me, virginity was no big deal.
My best friend lost her virginity to someone she barely knew, but she has no regrets. She had fun while their arrangement lasted, and the experience wasn't half as bad as she was expecting.
For both of us, it was like Tish said - the time was just right for the both of us. When we both lost our virginity, we were emotionally ready to be sexually active.
If you are 100% comfortable with this guy, you are ready to lose your virginity, and it's really not such a big deal to you, then there's no reason why you shouldn't go for it. But if you want it to mean something, then I'd say hold off until you find that special person.
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