Do you still masterbate?

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Do you still masterbate?
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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 5:39pm

Hi Gals!
FOr those of you who are in a relationship or married.... do you still masterbate??
My bf and I have been together for 3 years... we have sex pretty regularly, twice per week or so... I have not masterbated in 10 months... and i have no urge to do so.

Do you still please yourself even though you have sex on regular basis?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 5:44pm

I still do at times if the mood hits and he's at work.


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Registered: 01-02-2001
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 5:57pm
Former GF masturbated *every* morning even after the occasional marathon nights of rousing sex that included as much as two or three hours of cunnilingus and as many as ten orgasms for her. I'm not a young man anymore and I just couldn't keep up so she eventually moved on. I must say that while the sex was great, I found that I was actually relieved after she was gone.
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Registered: 05-27-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:11pm
well earlier in the relationship I used to masturbate even though we had regular sex. Maybe my libido just declined?
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Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:16pm

Absolutely! My DH isn't available 24/7 so when the mood hits and he's not around, I take care of myself. And I'm sure he does the same. My libido has always been higher than his so it's a necessity. But the more sex I have, the more I tend to self stimulate. Everyone has peaks and valleys in desire though....that's normal.




Edited 8/25/2005 6:19 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:26pm

So far Dh has been able to keep up with me and me with him


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Registered: 05-28-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 6:55pm
actually yes, because I have difficulty having orgasms with him......not that the experience isn't pure pleasure, though
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Registered: 04-25-2005
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 7:04pm
yes i do. and i know for a fact my bf does. right after we have had like 3 sex sessions in a row ( great sex by the way ) we still tend to touch ourselves after sex. i do when im by myself also. good ol vibrator sure comes in handy !
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Registered: 01-02-2001
Thu, 08-25-2005 - 7:23pm
Tish, there were other problems in the relationship if you can call it that. Chief among those was a total lack of emotional commitment on her part which she freely admitted.
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Registered: 08-08-2005
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 9:40am

I'm just very horny...all the time. We have sex at least 6 times a week. (Still new in the relationship, I'm sure it'll die down after a while.) I've been told that's too much. But I don't care...I think they are jealous.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 10:44am

Who told you sex 6 times a week is too much?


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