Do you wish you had lost your virginity

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Do you wish you had lost your virginity
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Mon, 05-14-2007 - 7:19pm

with someone else?



I know that I lost my virginity in what I would consider ideal circumstances, but many of my friends wish they would have waited or had a different partner. I do think it would have been great to have met my DH when we were both younger. I think we would have both enjoyed exploring more of life together, but I don't regret how I lost my virginity or who I was with.



How about you? What was your first experience like?



Do you regret it or would you repeat it?



Do you think you were with the right person?



Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with?



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Mon, 05-14-2007 - 7:32pm

Physically loosing my virginity was to

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Mon, 05-14-2007 - 8:00pm

How about you? What was your first experience like? It just kind of happened. There was no pain and I remember thinking what the hell was that... Hey, what do you expect from a 14-15 year old kid.. Way back then you didn't talk about sex, so I had no idea.

Do you regret it or would you repeat it? I only wish I waited until I was a little older.

Do you think you were with the right person? Definitely not!

Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with? Sure.



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Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 05-14-2007 - 9:53pm

How about you? What was your first experience like?---It was ok. My friend and I were home alone and I called this guy I had been seeing (he was way older than I was) and told him that we would "do it" if he came over. And he came and we did....No pleasure at all for me....LOL

Do you regret it or would you repeat it?---I don't know if I would repeat it, but I don't regret it. I learned from it.

Do you think you were with the right person?---I don't know

Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with?---I guess not
I suppose what was supposed to happen did, I try to make every experience something to learn from so I guess I wouldn't change anything.

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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 2:20am

How about you? What was your first experience like? Amazing

Do you regret it or would you repeat it? I would repeat it again and again

Do you think you were with the right person? I married him .
It was as right as it could be

Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with No!

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Registered: 08-24-2006
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 6:48am
Yes, i do wish it had been someone else. I wish it had been with my best friend, but it was the guy who I dated after he moved away, and he was a jerk.
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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 7:24am

Welcome to the board age-of-aquarius. I hope you'll stop by May Roll Call and let us get to know you a little better.



Sorry to hear you had a bad first experience.





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Registered: 08-24-2006
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 7:36am
Thanks! It wasn't that experience itself was so bad. I just have regrets about who it was with after the fact. I only dated him because the person I loved deeply had left, but I wish I had not done so given how he treated me.
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Registered: 04-20-2007
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 9:47am

My story is pretty personal but I don't mind sharing!

How about you? What was your first experience like?
~The first time I had sex of any kind was not what you expect. I met my dad four years ago after 13 years of not knowing him and things were awesome. We were bonding like any normal father-daughter would. Well after a year of my brother and I spending weekends with him and his family my brother and I decided to go to different places for the summer. I went to dads he went to my aunts. My dad started treating me differently if you get what I mean. He was actually the first man to put his **** in me. It's totally embarrasing but it's the truth. I go to trial in June with him!

Do you regret it or would you repeat it?
~I definately wish it wasn't who it was. So I do regret it~

Do you think you were with the right person?
~What do you think~

Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with?
~The man I am with now~

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 9:59am

Sorry to hear you were taken advantage of by someone who should have protected you! Let us know how the trial goes.

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Registered: 04-20-2007
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 10:05am
I will...thanks for the concern!!

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