Do you wish you had lost your virginity

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Do you wish you had lost your virginity
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Mon, 05-14-2007 - 7:19pm

with someone else?



I know that I lost my virginity in what I would consider ideal circumstances, but many of my friends wish they would have waited or had a different partner. I do think it would have been great to have met my DH when we were both younger. I think we would have both enjoyed exploring more of life together, but I don't regret how I lost my virginity or who I was with.



How about you? What was your first experience like?



Do you regret it or would you repeat it?



Do you think you were with the right person?



Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with?



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Registered: 05-15-2007
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 10:58am
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Registered: 03-16-2007
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 7:34pm

How about you? What was your first experience like?
when i lost my virginity it was amazing. my guy was so perfect about the whole thing! it wasnt his first time so he comforted me and kind of talked me through it. when i look back on that night it always brings a smile to face, sometimes even a tear because it was just wonderful. :)

Do you regret it or would you repeat it? i would absolutely do it again.

Do you think you were with the right person? i KNOW i was with the right person.

Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with? NOOOOO!

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 11:20am

What was your first experience like?
It definitely wasnt perfect and I didnt orgasm but it was perfect for me.

Do you regret it or would you repeat it?
I do not regret my decision to lose my virginity when I did. I wouldn't repeat my 1st time as I said it was perfect for me above.

Do you think you were with the right person?
I dont regret at all the person I decided to lose my virginity to and think he was the right person to be with.

Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with?
Nope

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Registered: 11-04-1999
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 12:08pm

I'm a 56-year-old male. When I was 38, I started dating a 50-year-old old woman, and she related her first IC experience to me.

She was in high school, long before the "sexual revolution", and she had sex for the first time in the back seat of a car. She didn't regret it, it was just time to lose her virginity...partially out of curiosity. She didn't even remember the guy's name.

Greg

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Registered: 03-12-2007
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 4:26pm

How about you? What was your first experience like?

i'd still do it with him. we were watching john tucker must die (lol) and for some reason that night i was ready. i had been ready for a few months, but wanted to be on BC and make sure i was ready. my bf had no idea what was going on. i wrapped my legs around him and pulled him in and for a long time he resisted b/c he wasn't sure if i knew what i was doing. lol.

Do you regret it or would you repeat it?

don't regret. would repeat. i always wanted something super special like vacationy or something, but that night was perfect! i do think i was under a lot of stress/emotional problems and just kind of needing the comfort at the time, so part of me feels like i should have waited, but none of those problems were going to go away anytime soon either.

Do you think you were with the right person?

as of now i do.

Is there anyone else you wish you could have been with?

i think the only thing that could change my mind is if him and i break up and find someonoe else. i really hope that doesn't happen though b/c i just want to be with him.

my only wish is that i would have been his first too. and i really, really wish that, but it's not something i can ever change and i guess it's good that it was only 1 other girl.

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