Does anyone else clam up when stressed
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Does anyone else clam up when stressed
| Wed, 06-25-2008 - 8:52pm |
Clam up...LOL...
My clam siezes when I have something on my mind.
| Wed, 06-25-2008 - 8:52pm |
Clam up...LOL...
My clam siezes when I have something on my mind.
It seems like you are responding to his stress by getting stressed and it has affected your sex drive.
Is there a way you can disconnect fromhis stress?
My sex drive is definitely affected by stress -- especially worry. It just zaps all of my energy.
Feeling guilty is something that puts stress on you that you need to find a way to let go of. What happened to your BF is not your fault .... not being able to have him move in with you right now isn't your fault either. Hopefully he's getting things in order and taking care of himself.
Don't take the weight of the world on your shoulders here. There are many ways you can be supportive of him, but don't let his problems be your problems unless you're able to bear the weight of those problems. Sounds like right now, you're not -- and that's OKAY.
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Yup, this is the same guy.
Thank you -your right about talking about it helping.
Glad I did talk with him last night.
"And I know that he WANTS to move in with me because we talked about it."
Great news!
I guess by now your libido has kicked back into gear!
I know what you mean about wanting a guy to *want* to be with you and not with you for other reasons like convenience or feeling sorry for himself or you,etc.
This is interesting....you should post this as a thread....
Why haven't you met in so many years?
My freakin computer is driving me nuts....It is taking forever, even to type a Letter.
I'm turning it off....But I want to know!