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Does everybody mb?
| Fri, 10-22-2004 - 5:09pm |
I don't mb and was wondering if I'm normal? I could never fantacize much anyhow or felt the need to mb. My husband and I have sex usually once a day, sometimes every other day, occassionally once every four days if we are busy. I enjoy sex immensely, orgasm almost always, and my libido for him is fine(I initiate almost half of the time). Am I a stranger in Paradise?

I agree with the others, you're not abnormal, you just don't feel the need.
Personally, I enjoy masturbation and I enjoy sex with my DH but they are different. One is strictly about self exploration and personal pleasure and the other is about giving AND receiving pleasure.
I've learned a lot about myself through self stimulation and I know it's made me a better lover. I think many of us have a problem with receiving pleasure or even asking for what we want, since that's not what we're taught as women.
Taking care of your own needs "gives you permission," in a sense, to enjoy your own body, not just with and through a partner but for your own benefit.