Does sex define who you are?
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Does sex define who you are?
| Wed, 09-22-2004 - 9:20am |
Does sex, define who you are as a person? Let's for a minute pretend that there are not any STD's(wishful thinking) so as not to cloud the issue. In another post someone mentioned that nice-guys are not whores. I personally don't ever ask a person about their sexual history, or really care to know for that matter. It's not a criteria that I judge a person's character by. If you're a great person, I'd never know if you were a whore or not. Do you ask and thereafter judge someone based on their sexual past?

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people talk about asking for test papers or broaching the subject of stds, very few actually do.
Also, with reference to the number of partners being relevant to determining how high a risk a person is; i have another thought. What if two men had five partners each. But one of those men was with two women who were prostitutes or had very high numbers, and the other man had sex with women who all had less than two partners each? Wouldn't the first man be a much higher risk, even though they both had the same amount of partners. They say that when you have sex with someone, you have sex with everyone they had sex with.
about the testing, i only meant that few talk about it and fewer ask to see papers -- unless you're a porn star, lol, then you gotta bring papers to the shoot.
There has always been affairs, im not naive. I feel since "free sex came about in the 70`s and all the hoopla surrounding sex ever since, sex has lost the stiegma it used to have. Sex was reserved for mostly relationships, because it was something done between two people who love each other. Now it seems its nothing more than a handshake with an orgasm.
here's a humorous list of uses for sex by annie sprinkle, sex worker turned performance artist turned dr.:
Sex as a sedative. It helps you go to sleep.
Sex to fight addictions. It helped me quit smoking.
Sex as a laxative. Regular sex helps you have regular sh*ts.
Sex to get to know somebody. You can tell a lot about a person by f*cking them.
Sex as a meditation.
Sex to relive boredom.
Sex to improve concentration.
Sex to make money.
Sex to create magic. Some witches believe that the most powerful time to cast a spell is during orgasm.
Sex for manipulation. It can get you what you want.
Sex as a reward. Either to yourself or to someone else.
Sex for relaxation.
Sex for rejuvenation. It keeps you looking and feeling younger.
Sex to increase energy. A great pick-me-up.
Sex to cure an asthma attack. I saved a man's life once.
Sex to make you laugh. It can be hilarious.
Sex as a gift. A present for birthdays, anniversaries, Bar Mitzvahs...
Sex to get high.
Sex to achieve an altered state.
Sex to create life.
Sex for waking up. Helps get rid of that groggy feeling.
Sex to cure back pain.
Sex to keep warm in the winter.
Sex as a pain killer. It's far more potent than aspirin, and most prescription pain killers.
Sex as an anti-depressant. It will cheer you up.
Sex for stress reduction.
Sex as a spiritual exercise.
Sex for exercise. It's aerobic and burns calories.
Sex for thrills and adventure.
Sex to relive headaches. Even migraines.
Sex as a cure for writer's block.
Sex as a good deed. Give the needy an occasional mercy f*ck.
Sex as an art form. It can be very creative and a great way to express oneself.
Sex to control appetite. It can be so filling.
Sex for cardiovascular health.
Sex to create intimacy.
Sex as an expression of love.
Sex for itching mosquito bites. Apply your own sperm to affected areas.
Sex for barter. Trade it for all kinds of things.
Sex to get in touch with emotions, like sadness.
Sex to avoid working. I can always finish this some other time.
I think the quality of past relationships one has had with former lovers is far more reflective of character than just the number alone.
I do agree that a double standard still exists among too many men though. That's sad, in this day and age, but true.
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