does your SO know you visit here?

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Registered: 01-25-2008
does your SO know you visit here?
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Fri, 02-15-2008 - 7:43pm

After reading a post I wondered how many here post & participate in discussions about sex & relationships and their SO does or doesn't

 

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 2:43am

You can set up different profiles/user name

Carrie

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 8:02am

Hi Carrie,

CLs definitely have no way of knowing anything about e-mail or account names other than what the individual member shares with us.

I'm not sure on the others, but if anyone is interested, I could ask.



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Registered: 12-08-2007
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 9:36am

My hubby knows that I read and post here. He is much more open than I am about stuff, so I think he likes it that I'm actually interested enough to participate on these boards. It has helped me to learn and grow and it's really helped to broaden our relationship.

How can you be sure that your dh isn't interested in being a little more open about things? Just because you started your marriage with certain boundaries doesn't mean that you can't renegotiate. People change and grow throughout a relationship. It might be a good thing to talk to him about it and you can decide together whether you should quit posting or not. And once you talk about it you will know that you haven't hidden anything from him. That little nagging twinge of guilt can go !

Good luck with whatever you decide.

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Registered: 09-12-2007
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 12:38pm

Yes.


To what extent?


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Registered: 02-12-2008
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 2:56pm

My dh knows, I told him the first day I found these boards, b/4 I was done explaining he got a look like"OMG!" b/c he mistook it for a "hook-up" board, and I explained that is was not that at all.

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Sun, 02-17-2008 - 10:16pm

I've been married for 25 years and with my husband for 28.

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Registered: 01-27-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 4:13pm

Hang in there Maggie.

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Registered: 04-11-2006
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 4:25pm
funny that you ask about R rated movies. No, we do not watch R rated movies. Seeing as how this is a public forum and enyone can read this and respond, I know lots of people are going to think we're moralistic freaks for saying that. Oh well!

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Registered: 01-27-2007
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 4:34pm
Nope, I doubt anyone on here is making a judgement.
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Registered: 04-11-2006
Mon, 02-18-2008 - 6:30pm

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i agree very much.


There was a quote on the first page of one of my psychology books (I graduated in psych BTW) It said, "The way to have a happy stress-free life is to behave in accordance with what you truly know is right."

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