doggie style

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Mon, 01-16-2006 - 10:59am

Why is it that men love doggie style so much?? My SO has always had a lot of trouble climaxing during sex but when we tried doggie style he came in about 5 minutes!

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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 11:08am
I heard doing it doggiestyle achieves deeper penetration. My boyfriend and I are both kind of inexperienced so we are having issues keeping it in while doing it doggiestyle...ugh!
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Registered: 06-28-2005
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 3:47pm
I agree that it's probably due to deeper penetration. I know with my ex-bf, if we'd been going at it a while and I was ready to be done...I'd suggest doggie and he'd finish up in about 2 minutes.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 4:56pm
According to my best friend (male), it's the feeling of power.
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Registered: 12-24-2005
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 5:12pm

I am a devout 'assman,' and the sight of my lover's ass quivering with each thrust of mine is nearly enough on it's own to make me come, let alone the friction from rear entry.

For me, it's got little if anything to do with domination, though. I'm not one into dominating. I like reciprocity in relationships.

But I'm an artist and love viewing each and every single, sensual ripple that rolls upon the soft, luscious ass of my lover as I thrust upon her.

Perhaps this is why I think I wouldn't get very excited by 'doing it' with a female bodybuilder type who's butt is rock-hard. The luscious factor is really the draw for me!

An extra added bonus is that I can digitally penetrate her rosebud when I'm doing this.

Did I say I was a major assman? Lol.

I also think there's a sweaty, musky scent that rises from her buttocks as she is being pounded, that is absent in frontal penetration, and that's something that further adds to the sensual delights of this orientation.

Incidentally, one ex GF seemed resentful that I could only come easily when we did it from behind. I think she felt this was because I was taking a dominating view of this. There was a definite lack of communication in that relationship. Ironically, she was an artist, too. Just goes to show -- never ASSume anything! ;)




Edited 1/16/2006 5:19 pm ET by e_steubing
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Registered: 12-09-2003
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 6:32pm
My SO said he liked to do it doggie style because of the view. He doesn't come more easily when we do it from behind though like other posters have mentioned.
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Registered: 02-21-2005
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 6:57pm
I like it for a few reasons; it gives me the best view of her welcoming my penis inside and I suppose ther is an element of dom/sub to it, but most of all it has to do with the contact between the sensitive bottom of my penis dragging across her pubic bone as I thrust. The added friction of pushing against it puts me over the top every time.
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Registered: 11-15-2003
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 8:13pm

Have to admit this is my favorite position too. I agree with the other guys here and their reasons. You can sum up everything that the other guys have said by basically saying that doggie is "primal". I'm sure that there is some genetic memory based in the reptillian mind that says that this position is "right". From an evolutionary standpoint, front to front sex is an extremely recent occurance. Our ancestors all copulated rear entry and I'm sure that this still exists within us.

Peace,
Scott.

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Registered: 11-17-2005
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 9:48pm
Okay, woman point of view - I love doggie and so does my DH. He loves the view and different feel and I love how he can hold on to my hips and thrust or cup his hands around my breasts and kiss on my neck!

 

 

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kehteh
Tue, 01-17-2006 - 12:57am
My DH enjoys it because it feels good and he knows it feels good to me, as well.
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Registered: 02-13-2005
In reply to: kehteh
Tue, 01-17-2006 - 2:40pm

Could be for many reasons. Control, not necissarily over you, but the action, then there is the visual aspect and men are visual and the old...goes deeper that way.
Ask him why it seems to be more stimulating to him. You might find his answer turns you on so much you begin to request it and enjoy it more yourself.

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