doggie style

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doggie style
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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 1:55am
I hate the name of this sexual position but I enjoy doing it. My wife doesn't like doing it though because she says she doesn't like it when we can't face each other. I would like to know how you other women feel about this. She says if you don't face each other it's just too much about the sex and not the love. Agree or not?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 11-16-2005 - 6:53pm
Yes, the visuals. I think that's why my DH enjoys this position, too. The side of our bed faces our dresser mirror so we both can watch using this or any position. Just catching a glimpse of yourselves going at it CAN make things even hotter.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 11-16-2005 - 6:58pm

when we do the normal missionary style position, she shut her eyes most of the time anyway. So, what difference does it make?


Good question... so do I! LOL

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Registered: 05-26-2003
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 11-17-2005 - 5:55pm
"On my knees" is what I call it. This is our Randy position! When we're really turned on and just want some hard sex, this is it. Its great! And too its great for the imagination. Is he gonna pull my hair? Spank my ass? Maybe try some anal sex? And I agree its nice to see in the mirror. My husband calls it making love, I call it fooling around. I guess its whatever your comfortable with..... I know some women don't like the name, or the feeling of being powerless - dominated like they couldn't get away if they wanted and then some that are afraid the position leaves them available for anal sex.
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Registered: 08-21-2005
In reply to: manunit
Sun, 11-20-2005 - 1:36pm

Well, you can have sex with a stranger and lie and pretend its love, but it will still only be a one night f**k for your self or at the most mutually concerned sex, your lie wont make it lovemaking.

But a couple truely in love can make love, jsut have sex, or on a down and dirty day, f$$K each other with abandon. The variety is a big part of the fun, and following each others signals to either a night of heartfelt eye to eye lovemaking, or to a good ole raunchy bu*tfu**ing, the reward.

However, you also have other considerations. And my wife has her best orgasms when she is flat on her belly, legs together but ass puched up, and I am behind her straddling her legs and moving from sitting on knees to lying facedown on her back as I enter from behind and above. So I forgoe the beautiful look in her eyes and face as she orgasms most nights in order to share with her the best ones. But in occasion I do remind her of my love of her eyes, and we do keep up the variety and always look for new things.

BTW, doggie style with her on hands and knees strecthes her so tight across my most sensitive area that I lose control in a very few strokes, while her laying flat andlegs together leaves me in position to comntinuosly stimulate her while having a wide range of ways to move that can help me control my response and sensitivity, its a great position that we found together.

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Registered: 11-01-2005
In reply to: manunit
Sun, 11-20-2005 - 11:34pm

As a woman, I love this position! I call it Loss of Control though because thats how I feel..he has all the power and he isn't selfish with it either. And he loves it because he says it brings out my wild side. We're LDR, but when we're together, its always in our repetoire at least once.

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Registered: 08-16-2005
In reply to: manunit
Sun, 12-04-2005 - 2:32pm

I think that is silly! Sex isn't always suppose to be so serious, I feel sex is always intimate as long as you’re with someone you truly love and changing position never makes it less intimate, if anything is makes it more exciting and pleasurable! Tell your wife to relax and have fun!

-Good luck!

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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 10:13am
Sometimes we can change positions too much, if its working dont change...lol Many women complain that they were with a guy who changed positions many times during their session... They would just start to "get there" and he would change things up....
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Registered: 04-13-2003
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 12:07pm
Why do guys like to change positions so much?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 12:31pm

We both like changing positions at times.


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Registered: 11-30-2005
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 1:48pm
Your partner might be self-conscience. When me and my husband tried this position the first few times, I was super aware of what he might be viewing, and didn't really know what a 'pretty p*ssy' was, and if I looked normal or attractive from that particular view. My husband has been very helpful in letting me know that he thinks I have a very beautiful backside, and I've flipped through a few of his porns and become acquanted with the female genitalia...so I no longer have the same fears and came enjoy myself when he's behind me.