doggie style

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Registered: 08-02-2004
doggie style
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Wed, 11-16-2005 - 1:55am
I hate the name of this sexual position but I enjoy doing it. My wife doesn't like doing it though because she says she doesn't like it when we can't face each other. I would like to know how you other women feel about this. She says if you don't face each other it's just too much about the sex and not the love. Agree or not?

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Registered: 12-05-2005
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 9:12pm
Well I'm a woman and this position is actually my favorite. It feels the best to me this way and is more exciting. I don't feel like it takes away from the love two people share at all. I guess we all have our favorite positions though and what feels best to us and this is mine.
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Registered: 11-01-2005
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 12-05-2005 - 9:31pm

This last time we were together (we're LDR), he came very quickly (due to not being with me for 4 months, I can understand), most of the time before me, so we would switch it up to slow him down a bit. It helped and me being on top slowed him down quite a bit. During one particular session, I found that we did switch a bit too often because I wouldn't get off but he would. Ah well...it was both of us contributing to that.

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Registered: 12-06-2005
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 12-06-2005 - 8:32am
LOVE doggie style.....I just stick my tail in the air and my head on the bed.When things get going good I reach around and grab his balls.Bingo!
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Registered: 12-10-2004
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 12-06-2005 - 9:22pm

Like a PP, I am a woman and LOVE this position. It is actually the one we use the most frequently when we are doing quickies. When DH walks up behind me and bends me over, I instantly become wet and open for business. DH knows he can pump me hard and deep, it will make me orgasm quickly, and he is in control of my Os. It is also a great position for him to take even more control by pulling out for some oral or rimming action, or even slipping in a finger or thumb to really make me squeal!

Perfect SEX position!

Gracey

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Registered: 09-28-2004
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 12-07-2005 - 7:51am
I know some women complain that they can't come this way...or even that the guy can go a little too deep. However, I think there's a sort of primal aspect to this position and so what if it's about sex? Isn't that the point?
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Registered: 12-08-2005
In reply to: manunit
Thu, 12-08-2005 - 5:51pm
I really don't know how the rest of the female population feel about "doggy style", but it certainly ranks as one of may favorites if not THE favorite. I disagree with your wife in that it has much to do with sex and little to do with love just because she can't see your face. I mean, you're married to her so she must know your face pretty well. The question is: does your wife like it with the lights on? Does she keep her eyes closed during sex? If she doesn't like lights on or if she closes her eyes, you might have to start there and tell her that her "seeing" is a great act of love on her part. This little fact usually builds up confidence for further adventures. I think one way to go about it would be ask her if she considers you a loving, caring sexual partner. I know only one thing for certain, sex is sex and love is love. The combination of both is absolute bliss and absloute heaven in marriage.
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Registered: 03-23-2005
In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 9:02am
how about if she turns her head back and looks at you,
that can be so sexy and sensual....tell her to
live for the feeling and moment, and she knows
you both love eachother, you can't always be looking
into eachothers eyes, but feel the love at all times!!!
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Registered: 12-09-2005
In reply to: manunit
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 8:29pm
i don't agree w/her. this form of sex is just another way to express yourselves and your love for one another. my husband loves this position and even if i'm not in the mood i do it for him. and you know what once i'm there i love it too.
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Registered: 12-14-2005
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 12-14-2005 - 5:27am
I am married and I LOVE doggy style. I am not trying to sound rude but there are different kinds of sex. I love my husband with all my heart. There are times when I want passion and tenderness and that is great but there are also times when I want to get down and dirty and everything goes. It sound like your wife is just a passionate person and wants the lovey dovey sex and that is the way she is, maybe a little old fashion. There is nothing wrong with it but if she loves you she should do anything to make you happy even though that may mean doing something she doesn't want to do.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 12-14-2005 - 9:43am
sammi does that include swallowing?

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