doggie style and anal bleaching

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Registered: 07-05-2005
doggie style and anal bleaching
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Mon, 12-12-2005 - 10:01pm
so... my boyfriend asked me if i would get my ass bleached. He even offered to pay for it. I asked him why?. and he first said that porn stars do, and then said that when he hits me from behind, he does'nt like looking at my ass. but frankly, ITS MY ASS! why does it matter? he says that he loves me, and I love him too, but it really hurt me that the color of my ass matters to him. Is this normal? Should i be offended? he has his flaws, but i do not comment about them, I love him for who he his, flaws and all... why can't he be the same way?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 5:28pm

Since Johnny Holmes is dead, the OP's guy sounds like he's digging his own grave too.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 6:24pm
Dakine, there is not much that you have not heard about. From the lady's description, I assumed that it was "bleaching" the area around the anus, but I had never heard about it being done. You, Dakine, have a very inquisitive mind and also must do a lot of reading (when you are not on these boards). LOL
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 7:19pm

With this one, I wish I WERE too old to learn! LOL!
Plastic surgery I can understand, trimming pubic hair I can understand, fake tans I can understand, but bleaching your ANUS? Hmmmm.

In reply to the OP, if I were asked to do that, I think that I'd just look at the guy with one eyebrow raised, a hand on my hip, and say "You want me to do WHAT?"

Porn stars might do it, but then they make a living from this sort of thing, don't they? I'd tell him to take a long walk off a short pier. Anyway, if I *was* to do that, then you can be damned sure that I'd demand a porn star sized penis and porn star staying power to go with my freshly bleached butt.

This has got to be the most rediculous form of sexual grooming that I've ever heard of.

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Registered: 11-17-2005
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 8:36pm

I learn something new everyday on these boards! Ass bleaching, you got to be kinding me! Would I be offended? HELL yes!!! But then again, my DH would never ask or say something like that to me. I definetely ditto the "reality" thing! This is real life - not the movies! Tell him to "pump it up a notch!"

By the way, Katmandoo mentioned something about when did maturing become such a negative thing. I'm not old but not real young and have always been told that "things get better with age!" So maybe he needs a decade or two of maturing before he can appreciate it.

 

 

 

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 8:41pm

So Westie, does that mean you're not going to be first in line to get a BJ (bleach job)?


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Registered: 12-14-2005
Wed, 12-14-2005 - 4:51am
I think this is very odd. He is asking you to do something completely weird. If he doesn't like the veiw then maybe he should stick to the front. I am sure he was not trying to hurt you or anything but what you do with your ass is your business. Would he do something like that for you?
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 12-15-2005 - 12:16am

>>You guys better be careful if your woman asks you if you want a BJ, make sure you know what kind she's talking about or you might find yourself sitting in a bucket of clorox!<<

Yup. That would sure ruin the mood!

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