Doggie style & Queefing??

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Registered: 07-17-2006
Doggie style & Queefing??
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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 3:29pm
Almost every time I have sex doggie style, which i love, I queef, which is really embarassing. Sure, people say to laugh it off, which is fine. But it's really humiliating for me because I'm such a private person. (for example I'd never pass gas or go to the bathroom in front of a boyfriend) Is there anyway to avoid this problem without giving up this position?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 5:15pm
A queef occurs when air is sucked into the vagina and then pushed out with the penis (dildo or vibrator). Queefing commonly occurs during doggy style and with a lot of lubrication. You can try to have your legs less spread and keep your pelvic muscles tight during intercourse and he can take shorter thrusts and pump less forcefully to help avoid queefing.


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Registered: 08-24-2006
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 8:13pm
Seems like the more lubrication I use the less this is a problem.
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Registered: 06-04-2007
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 8:45pm
I've had this happen on occasion when I've done doggy-style with the ex. But, we didn't even care since we were into the sex. I'm not sure how you can eliminate the problem, but it was never a big deal to me. I'd never give up doggy-style no matter what as it's my very favorite position.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 12:37am
How "private" can you be when you're having sex! If you don't want it to happen, figure out a way to keep your torso higher than your hips.....it's because when your hips are higher than your torso, your insides, including your uterus move upward, pulling the cervix up, and pulling air into your vagina. When you stand up, or sit up, the uterus moves back downward, and pushes the air back out. That's simple anatomy.
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Registered: 06-07-2007
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 12:55pm
i have the same problem except its not just during doggie style... if you find out if there is anything you can do for this please let me know.
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Registered: 10-22-2004
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 3:44pm
I was going to say the same thing. Seems like the more lube there is the less it happens.
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 9:13pm

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Registered: 05-09-2007
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 5:34pm
I have the same problem. My bf likes to give me oral in the doggie style position. So it's even worse because his face is down there! But really the best thing to do is try to ignore it and don't let it distract you. Bf doesn't even acknowledge it...luckily!!
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Registered: 06-16-2007
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 7:35pm
Its really not that big of a deal, happens quite a bit doggy. Doesnt make me lose any more interest, laugh a lil bit with her and keep enjoying the passion. I wouldnt worry about it.
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Registered: 05-11-2007
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 8:33am
As long as the guy realizes that it is just air being pushed from the vagina it shouldn't bother them at all. I know some guys LIKE the way it feels. More lube does helps a little bit but I dont think there is anyway to stop it completely.