doggie style

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doggie style
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Mon, 01-16-2006 - 10:59am

Why is it that men love doggie style so much?? My SO has always had a lot of trouble climaxing during sex but when we tried doggie style he came in about 5 minutes!

Kx

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In reply to: kehteh
Tue, 01-17-2006 - 3:43pm
DH says he loves the view in this position. We usually save it for the end :) lol
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In reply to: kehteh
Tue, 01-17-2006 - 4:50pm
Let's see.....my man loves the view, the feeling, and the fact it drives me crazy.

 


 


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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: kehteh
Tue, 01-17-2006 - 4:55pm

It's a combination of reasons for sure. Some will be more of a factor to one guy than they are to another.

It's slightly naughty. Missionary is vanilla, doggie is a slightly wild uninhibited position.
It looks great and we can watch the action intently. Men are visual and being able to see their penis stroking in and out is pretty erotic.
Your arse looks good.
It's animalistic. You have to eye-to-eye contact and you can let those primal feelings out and just enjoy the pure sexual sensations.
Similar to the one above, you don't have to think about your partner too much or "worry" about her watching you - you can just enjoy without having to be too "romantic" as well.
The power. Some guys love the slightly dominant implications of the position. You are the one in control with your woman spread out in front of you. We can grab your arse and move you around a bit too.
There's more scope to increase the sensation. Because we're in control we can adjust the rhythm and angle to maximise sensation. We can usually thrust pretty powerfully in this position too. We can get deep inside you too which feels great.

Personally, it's a whole combination for me. I love watching my partner writher and moan under me too. Something pretty erotic about seeing her grab the sheets and orgasm in this position while I'm thrusting powerfully in and out, watching my penis, and touching her body or holding her hips.

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Registered: 04-24-2004
In reply to: kehteh
Wed, 01-18-2006 - 1:45am
My Dh loves doggie style cause it makes his senisitve spot rub against mine.
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Registered: 01-05-2006
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 02-13-2006 - 1:51pm

so how do you feel about doing a man on top position?

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Judith

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Registered: 12-24-2005
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 02-13-2006 - 5:40pm

Hi Judith,

I understood you to be asking how I feel about being on top. If that's the case, I love being on top.

One of the great things about sex is that there are so many things to be enjoyed!

Best,

E :)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 02-13-2006 - 6:21pm
My wife and I always do missionary, but now that the subject of Doggy Style has been brought up, I think we will try it that way again. It's been a long time since I had it that way
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Registered: 01-05-2006
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 02-13-2006 - 9:03pm
why do you like being on top in comparison to doing doggy style? even though you like doggy style more it seems? or do you?
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Registered: 01-05-2006
In reply to: kehteh
Mon, 02-13-2006 - 11:26pm

when you say missionary -who is on top and if it is the man then why do you males like to be on top?

JS

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Registered: 12-24-2005
In reply to: kehteh
Tue, 02-14-2006 - 3:44am

Being on top allows more emotional intimacy with my partner. We're face-to-face and we can gaze into one another's eyes silently or while whispering, we can kiss. And all this while being as physically close to one another as possible. I can't think of anything more personal.

The doggie position can be extremely erotic and stimulating, as I described in more detail in my original post. But it's not as emotionally intimate.

:)