Doggy-style

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Registered: 10-10-2005
Doggy-style
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Thu, 01-19-2006 - 5:05pm
My boyfriend and I really want to have sex doggy style but everytime we get into the position we can't seem to get his penis inside of me. It always seems that the angle is completely off and we can't figure out why. Is it easier for him to try in get it in or me? I want a way for him to slide in easily without all of the awkward fumbling around to try and make it work. Should we try getting it inside before getting into position? Any suggestions?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 01-19-2006 - 5:25pm

Doggie style is one of those positions you sometimes have to experiment different things with to see what works.


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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 01-20-2006 - 5:51am
The important thing is to get your backside at the right level. If you're too high, or too low, it's not going to work. Try him standing, you kneeling on the edge of the bed. Then you can raise or lower yourself. Try both of you lying on your sides (spooning). It can be done, it just takes some experimenting.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-20-2006 - 9:48am

Not sure how you would manage penetration and THEN get into the doggy position but I guess it could be fun trying! LOL!

But the fun of learning how to manage all these positions and enjoy sex with your partner is experimenting and remaining PATIENT in the process.

Making sure that you are well lubricated would be the first consideration. My DH and I have found few positions we couldn't manage if I'm am fully aroused and lubricated.....slips right in almost every time, at almost any angle, too.

So, it's possible that the problem isn't the angle but the fact that you're still too dry. Spend more time in foreplay before attempting penetration and perhaps, start out in another position before switching to doggy. And get out and use the KY or Astroglide. It never hurts to add extra lube.

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Registered: 01-18-2006
Fri, 01-20-2006 - 2:19pm
It is most definately a fun way of changing up your routine!! When we finally started doing it, my DH was having a difficult time of proper stimulation (if you get my picture) so now I do the stimulation part while he rides away..