Doggy Style

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Registered: 05-02-2004
Doggy Style
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Fri, 08-13-2004 - 5:05pm
Okay me and my boyfiend tried doggy style last night and it was a bit awkward. I was on my hands and knees and he was knealing outside my thighs. For some reason we couldnt really make it work. I dont know if it was because we were on a low bed (futon) or if it was because he's not very long. I felt the whole time that he as on the brink of slipping out. The only time it worked was when i really arched my back but that got tiring. Is there anything that we could do to make it better? Are there any special tricks for guys who aren't that lengthy? I would really love to make this position work.

Thanks :)

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Registered: 05-18-2004
In reply to: chris0307
Fri, 08-13-2004 - 5:11pm
If you need to arch your back, trying lying with your chest against the bed and your hind end on your knees. You shouldn't get tired that way. Also, instead of kneeling, could he squat? It feels better for us when dh squats instead of kneels.

Leticia

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Registered: 08-15-2003
In reply to: chris0307
Fri, 08-13-2004 - 6:28pm
Doggie can be difficult and not much fun if you can't get the right position. Body size and all.

I find what bests works for me is have my SO on her knees, on the edge of the bed with her feet off the side. This way you can kind of lean back and have your tush over the floor.

He can stand on the floor and can either have his legs inside or out whatever works better.

It is a lot easier to adjust height by you resting your chest on the mattress. Or you can put a pillow under your chest to lean on. You will find a few ways to position your body for better penetration. Try it a few times and see what happens.
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Registered: 01-30-2004
In reply to: chris0307
Fri, 08-13-2004 - 7:21pm
That's exactly how we do it -- my bum hanging off the side of the bed and him standing next to the bed. Very intense -- you get like 110% penetration.

The other way we have started doing it is with both of us standing next to the bed, and him behind me. I'm bent over so that my chest is on the bed. That feels really good too. It's amazing that although he's a foot taller than me, even with me in bare feet his c*ck is at precisely the same height as my vagina.

I don't like it as much as face to face, it's less intimate. But he --loves-- watching my lips and perineum wrapping tightly around his dick -- it's just a massive turn-on for him it seems.