Doggy-style help!

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Doggy-style help!
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Sat, 11-13-2004 - 11:56am
I am 20 and my boyfriend is 22...I am a lot more sexually experienced than he is. The problem is, we have stuck to only missionary or woman on top for 5 months now. He wants to try doggy-style but when we tried it, it didn't work. I've done it with a few other men and somehow they all knew what to do. But my current b/f has never done it. He can't get his penis in. I guess I'm looking for some help as to how I can get this to work without making him feel like any less of a man. Thanks!

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Registered: 11-07-2003
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 12:50pm
Same problem here so I'd be interested in some tips, too. We just can't seem to make it work with me on all fours. Though we have found other ways to enjoy rear entry: it works well if I'm bent over a counter or table, and I also enjoy him lying on top of me when I'm on my belly.
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Registered: 11-10-2004
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 1:57pm
Hi Hockeygal and Malice. I'm not sure if my other message got posted. Try to use as much lubrication as possible, try to think arousing,erotic and sensual thoughts during the anal act and,if you enjoy it, try wearing lingerie(garter belts etc,etc). I hope this helps a little bit. Good luck and enjoy!
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Sat, 11-13-2004 - 2:32pm

Hi,


lol It IS awkward.


Sharon

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Sat, 11-13-2004 - 2:34pm

NICE!


Sharon

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 2:40pm
I don't believe they were referring to anal sex, just to doggie style position with vaginal intercourse.

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 3:14pm
Hi Hockeygal,

The problem that most run into with doggy-style on all fours is the differing lengths of femur bones (thighs) in our legs. For doggy-style to work seamlessly his femurs need to actually be a little shorter than yours...rare when they match up perfectly. If he would like to try the rear entry without all the logistical problems, try lying down with a pillow or two beneath the creases in your hips. Your head will be slightly lower than your backside and the pillows allow for a gentle curve in your low pack that tips your vagina upward slightly. He can then lie on top of you and easily insert his penis into your vagina. He gets the fun of feeling your back side against his hips as you make love, without the strain.

Eventually the two of you can figure out how to make the all fours postion work, but it is a lot of work if your thigh bones aren't just right. Easy is always more fun.

Peace.

Scott.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 4:13pm
As Scott says, it's a matter of logistics.....not necessarily femur lenghth, but simply how tall he is, and how tall you are, and where your behind is in relation to his penis when you're bent over in front of him. Try different "positions". If you're both standing, and you bend over in front of him, you might be too high, or too low for him to enter you. So...figure out how to get your vagina in the range of his penis. Try kneeling on the edge of the bed with him standing behind you, that way you can raise or lower yourself accordingly.

At that point, it still could be confusing for him, so take his penis in your hand, and guide it in. I can't see how that would make him feel any "less a man"!

There are hundreds of variations of the few basic positions....look up "kama sutra" for some ideas....not every position will work for every couple, but there are certainly lots more than the three you mentioned.

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Registered: 10-12-2004
Sun, 11-14-2004 - 4:59pm


Oh ya I hear you.

I’m slightly taller then my DW but she has long legs and short torso and I have short legs and long torso. As a result doggie style kind feels like I’m a chawawa trying to mount a Dane. :-0 Sometimes we can work it out but usually it’s more comical than effective.

Some alternates to try include rear entry but with both lying on their side and him entering her from behind. We also do it with her on her back with her but at the edge of the bed and me standing between her legs.

You can try having him get on pillow or spreading your legs but it can prove bit awkward.

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Mon, 11-15-2004 - 4:14pm
My bf lying on top with me on my belly is my favorite!! And luckly he will always say, "Do you want your favorite?" and I will glady flip right over.
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Tue, 11-16-2004 - 8:16pm
Rock on.

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