don't like giving oral sex

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Registered: 02-23-2005
don't like giving oral sex
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Wed, 02-23-2005 - 4:18pm
married to an awesome guy for 3 years. he loves giving and receiving oral sex. i really am not fond of it. i feel bad that i cant maximize his pleasure. i even sugessted maybe just getting a blow job from someone else, to satisfy his needs. any sugesstions??

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Fri, 02-25-2005 - 7:10am
But Dh's *is* soft! I tell him it feels just like velvet!
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Registered: 02-25-2005
Fri, 02-25-2005 - 12:45pm
never offer to let them get it from some where else it may start as a blow job but trust me it will lead to other things and you dont want that. try getting some flavored jell and put that on there prior to giving him head
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Registered: 01-10-2005
Fri, 02-25-2005 - 12:46pm

I think the advice about talking to him about it is good.

In my opinion, a well done handjob is up there with oral as far as pleasure.

So, talk to him openly about it and find a compromise. You may also have a change of heart later on as someone else mentioned.

Good Luck,

John

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Registered: 10-12-2004
Fri, 02-25-2005 - 2:51pm

I don't mind giving it actually for me it's a huge turn on.

 

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