Don't Know what to do after 5 Years!!

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Registered: 11-10-2003
Don't Know what to do after 5 Years!!
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Tue, 05-10-2005 - 2:50pm
I've been with my boyfriend/fiance for about five years now. He's a great guy and a wonderful provider for me and our 2-year-old daugther. Our sex life, however, is a travesty. It's over before I even have a chance to get into it, and it has always been this way! Psychologically, I cannot even try to get into sex anymore. If I do act like I'm enjoying it, it's just a show. Half the time I just lay there and get it over with. I'm frustrated out of my mind! I'm almost 25, and at my age I shouldn't be resigning to a non-existent sex life. I'm not a cheater, never have been, but the urge is there. I won't ever do it, but the urge is there. What do you think, people???
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 2:56pm

Have you talked to him?


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Registered: 11-10-2003
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 2:59pm
I've tried talking to him many times. He just gets angry. Besides, it's not like I keep it a big secret that I'm sexually unsatisfied. If I were a guy having sex with a woman who was just laying there with a bored expression on her face, I'd think that something was up. He knows he's doing something wrong, but he chooses to ignore the problem and let me suffer in silence. I think that's unfair.
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Registered: 12-21-2004
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 4:53pm
What exactly is your problem? You don't have sex enough, you aren't satifisied when you do??? If you aren't satifisied, try being on top and getting into positions that are enjoyable for you, rub your clit or something if that's what you need.
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Registered: 04-08-2005
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 4:56pm
If it's a problem with him cumming too fast try getting on top of him. I find that I last much longer when DW is on top of me.