Drunk sex leads to grooose morning
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Drunk sex leads to grooose morning
| Mon, 05-01-2006 - 3:00am |
I dated a man for 1 month and slept with him in a matter of four dates. We connected very well and well things didn't work out so we decided to be friends without the sex or anything. Last night after "being friends" with no sex for 2 whole months. We had a few drinks and one thing led to another and we had sex. I have no regrets considering the fact that I feel like this guy is very shy and innocent, so I didn't feel regretful of sleeping with him. My question is that I get really turned on very quickly and although I DO NOT find him attractive I slept with him and surprisingly was very turned on. Can a woman be unattracted to a man and still sleep with him? I guess I enjoyed the attention the physical touch and everything. but physically I am NOT attracted to him anymore. It was so awquard for me to wake up in the morning sober again and see him naked next to me. I also need to get this out of my chest! I WAS SOOO TURNED OFF THE NEXT MORNING TO THE SIGHT OF HIM!!! I felt soo bad feeling this way but I couldn't help it. I saw he had not trimmed his body hair, he had gained extra weight, he had a lot of chest hair and he had drooled on his pillow. It was the biggest drool puddle! I also saw he has toe fungus and stretch marks on his back. I feel sooo bad saying this. BUT I AM VERY UNATTRACTED TO HIM. When I think of him now I kinda squirm and kinda tell myself, "EWWWW!" has this happened to anyone? Am I diffirent? I found him attractive 3 months ago...but now I don't at all.

I doubt all these things happen to him since 2 months ago, he didn't just grow chest hair in the last 2 months (I love chest hair but that's me), so what if he didn't trim his body hair not all men trim their body hair, he most likely had the stretch marks 2 months ago also unless he put on a LOT of weight in the last 2 months, the drooling probably from him being drunk or he could be getting a cold.
I agree with Tish's answer here, and to your other post. There's something going on with you....and you've got "sex" confused with "love" for sure. If you're drinking so much that you'll jump in bed with someone you're not attracted to.....then you have a problem with alcohol, too. Getting that drunk is just an excuse for yourself. The next day, you can say "I wouldn't have done that if I hadn't been drunk!" then you can feel better about yourself. "It wasn't my fault, it was the alcohol"!
I also agree with Tish that you should try to get some professional help to find out why you're doing this to yourself. (Or if you already know why, get help to get over whatever makes you do it.)
ANYTIME you regret what you do when drinking is a good sign that you should stop drinking on a date! Alcohol lowers inhibitions and that's exactly why people tend to drink on dates.
IF you have less self control and judgement when drinking, as many people do, then you shouldn't drink in those situations. Remember the old song, "The Girls ALL Get Prettier at Closing Time?"
Just don't put yourself in the situation again and you won't have to be grossed out the next morning. And BTW, being "grossed out" in the morning IS regret!
sounds like a classic case of "coyote ugly"!!!
And I'm NOT talking about the bar where hot chicks dance on the tables!
(for those that don't know, the actual definition of "coyote ugly" is when you wake up the next morning with a HIGHLY UNATTRACTIVE person and you have to "chew your arm off" to get away because it is caught under the ugly person!
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I would say you drank WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much Hump.