Dry humping and ya.....

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Registered: 01-21-2007
Dry humping and ya.....
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Thu, 02-22-2007 - 8:51pm
Two days ago right, I was at my b/f's house and we were dry humping. At first I was ontop of him doin him then he went ontop of me and did me. This happened before and I really enjoy it, except well he's a little heavy on me. It makes me feel bad cause I know it's cause I'm small and he's tall and since he's tall he's big. Not big big, but you know? And so um ya. I don't want to tell him he's heavy though for some reason. I already feel bad that he is. And missionary is my favourite position. So when the time comes for us to really have sex, when I'm ready I'm guessing he'll be heavy again. This makes me feel bad. I know I like doggie style position and lying down sideways, but there not my favourites. I'm not saying I won't try those, I will cause I know I like them, but I guess I'm thinking he shouldn't be heavy when he's on me. Has this happeend to anyone before?
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Registered: 02-17-2007
Thu, 02-22-2007 - 9:18pm

Well, you should tell him what you're experiencing. There is no way to fix it unless you let him know.

It sounds like he just may be putting all of his weight on you, so maybe he can try holding himself up during missionary. It takes practice with every new partner to get things comfortable and easy.

Just talk to him, I'm sure he won't be offended.

 

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 02-22-2007 - 11:47pm
If you can't breathe, then you'd better TELL him before you pass out! He's NOT supposed to put all his weight on you....he's supposed to hold himself up with his arms. If he's too weak to do that, he'd better start working out! If someone is lying on your chest with his full weight, even if he's not much bigger that you, you can't BREATHE! He needs to hold his weight off you, and if he's not, the tell him to, or find a different position.
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Registered: 01-27-2007
Fri, 02-23-2007 - 6:07pm
If you feel bad talking to him; don't make it a formal thing. When you're dry humping or when you actually have sex in the missionary position just casually and gently push him up so you're comfortable. Maybe scoot around a bit like you're trying to get as comfortable as possible so all the focus isn't on him not putting so much pressure on you.