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| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:28am |
I often read threads about men who orgasm too quickly during intercourse.
| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:28am |
I often read threads about men who orgasm too quickly during intercourse.
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Edited 5/16/2004 11:14 am ET ET by free_to_choose
>>but I think that a quick orgasm is like being able to skip the dinner preparation and main course and move straight on to dessert. Orgasm is aim for most men. Who cares how long it takes to get there? The build up is nice but the orgasm is nicer. Forget the build-up and give me the orgasm is probably the opinion of a lot of men<<
This may be the opinion of a lot of men, but for me it doesn't lead to satisfying lovemaking. I find a nice, long build-up leading to orgasm ( sometimes to more than one) is much, much better than just getting there as quickly as posible. It also enables me to enjoy my DF's orgasms, as she has multiples while I'm getting there. Your dinner analogy is very apt in that I like dessert as much as anyone, but I have no desire to skip the maincourse, etc. and move straight on to dessert.
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>> i wonder if partly he takes longer because he realizes i am very pleased by long intercourse sessions and he is actively wanting to please me and last...i had another lover before this one who also lasted a much longer time than my husband and again i got the feeling he was stalling his orgasm on purpose to let intercourse linger.. <<
You "wonder" and "got the feeling" your lovers were lasting to please you. Did you ever ask them? This seems to me to be something you could talk about. They probably are doing something and I think it would please them to know you were aware of and appreciated their efforts.
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tish: >>15-20 mins is too much <<
noteworthy: >>I've never had intercourse for more than 15 minutes>>
Why is longer intercourse undesirable?
My DF and I routinely have intercourse for about 15-25 minutes because that's how long it takes me to orgasm. We change positions several times because too long in one position gets uncomfortable, but as long as we do that she has orgasms in every position. I usually only orgasm with me on top, which we save for last, but I enjoy the other positions a lot, and they help me with orgasm when I eventually get on top. Sometimes we'll just start out with me on top and little foreplay. When we first got together it usually took her 10 minutes or more to orgasm and usually included oral and digital foreplay to orgasm, but now she orgasms in under five minutes even if we have little or no foreplay.
taoist
tish: >>15-20 mins is too much <<
>>Why is longer intercourse undesirable? <<
Three reasons:
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I'm fianlly starting to know my body enough and not rush things after my orgasm. What I call temperamental, my wife calls, "bratty".
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Hmm, thanks for the verification. I've seen and heard here and elsewhere a lot of women complain about the leakage.
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Seeing as we're on the subject... have any of you had the experience of being "cross-eyed" for about a day after a pretty strong orgasm?
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