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| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:28am |
I often read threads about men who orgasm too quickly during intercourse.
| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 12:28am |
I often read threads about men who orgasm too quickly during intercourse.
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CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
>>Prolonging intercourse makes the man's pleasure last longer,too, <<.
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
>>I was referring to the idea that men should be asking the WOMEN if us men being naturally less than "long enough" is good enough anymore, because its (if I'm not mistaken now) the WOMEN who have issue with us not lasting long enough. <<
You see, I'm wondering if women are expecting too much?
>>Still, I was a little surprised that you had an issue with some men who try to better themselves in bed via learning methods to last longer. <<
I have no issue at all with a man who wants to learn new techniques.
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
Oh, I so agree with you on all your points Jeep!
For the life of me I cannot understand the rejection that some women speak of when their partner says "I'm too tired".
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
My point in this is for people to realize that sex is suppose to be adult fun. If we analyze it to death, it doesn't stay fun. The goal is to develop a sex life together that satisfies both partners. Which sex acts we perform and who does what for whom isn't as important as whether both partners feel their sexual needs are at the least being addressed and hopefully met. If my husband wants to research some technique he thinks would please me, then more power to him. But I'm satisfied with him doing exactly what he already does. He did recently start performing oral sex after 22 years of marriage. And he is good at it. Now do you think I should be analyzing how he got good at something supposedly the first time he attempted it????? lol lol lol lol....I think I'll just be grateful that he is good at it.
Robin
>>My point in this is for people to realize that sex is suppose to be adult fun. If we analyze it to death, it doesn't stay fun. <<
Yes, yes, yes!!!
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
I'm curious now, I remember reading male posts about them putting their women first, but I really fail to recall any of those posts suggesting its or anything even close to that effect. "Misunderstood" comes to my mind, however...
I can only hope the ladies, and you, are careful not to accidentally pinch the guy posters too much between the "too good" and "too bad" line. If guys post, they are either "typical men" or they are bragging about how good they are? Is there ever going to be an in between? LOL! If so, I desperately need an example.
Very many times we've heard about how guys need to improve and be more sensitive and focus more on the women too. NOW we hear that when those very guys come along, its too much???...or that it must be a desire to be politically correct???
Will guys forever be branded as something? If it ain't this, then don't worry cause there's always that? The fact that these guys, ahem, whoever they are, are so happily involved MUST suggest SOMETHING "acceptable" about those guys, but I guess I'm just the type that would appreciate the focus being on THAT more than steering toward another negative to -brand- them with. Just my opinion.
BTW, , LOL, but some of us happen to please each other more often than others, it would appear...so is it really really REALLY necessary or even mature to sink to the level of THIS whenever we DO hear about those relationships?! I am TERRIBLY confused. If of you ladies don't like the way some men treat many of you, then why discourage positive male posting that will hopefully set the record straight and actually discourage any immature males that may be reading? Just who in the world posted that men claim to be robots for their wives without ANY thought for himself??? What did I miss???
I'm a manager and also an owner in town here with the greatest wife that pampers me like you wouldn't believe...I clearly don't deserve her and try my best to be the best for her. I'm too mature for this type of -label- game, but I'll play along by asking just how should guys post around here. They seem damned either way. I STILL look forward to reading posts from YOUR men so that we guys who are currently can . Nevertheless, so long as we're doing things right for our wives, then we probably shouldn't worry ourselves with unjustified judgement by internet strangers.
I truly believe that an "opinion" like yours is "the opinion that" many of you ladies are just jealous of what you read about what other women actually DO get from their men and love jumping online to psychologically justify your own situations. I think those two opinions go very hand in hand and I'd feel better to know that we're all shaking our heads at both, but as usual, I can't speak for the other guys.
So, other than our happy wives, perhaps we men will have some insight on a new string called "How males should/shouldn't post" or something, but I'm still getting the impression that there will always be something regardless...
...I reeeally hope I'm wrong about some of you...
C H A R A C T E R
Para darling....I wasn't thinking about you when I posted.
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
I just simply don't think its 'helpful' for anyone around here to diss that selfless attitude that anyone claims to have. Who CARES if its bragging or not? Pat the lucky women on the back for having those guys if its true.
There's just too many negative stories about the bad guys to not take a moment and appreciate a good one or two. ANYONE claiming that being selfless is boring will certainly strike OTHERS out there as "suspicious" as well.
How many times do we hear that cute joke about women wanting "gingerbread men" instead of the 'pain' of having real men? LOL! Now we're hearing that sensitive, selfless men are boring???
Whew. Anyway, no worries, we know you better.
I'm crabby. Thought Mrs. Para would be home before I trudge off to work, now I won't see her till Sunday. Sigh! :(
c ya
C H A R A C T E R
Robin
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