DW has become so sensitive
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| Mon, 06-05-2006 - 6:27pm |
DW and I have been together for almost 3 ½ years. Our love life has steadily improved over that time as she has become more and more responsive. Her orgasms have become easier and faster and more satisfying for her. In our earliest days, we used to do a lot of oral and manual stimulation and she would have several orgasms this way. Later, she started having orgasms during IC and these became stronger and more satisfying for her. For the last year or two she has desired oral sex less and less. I really love to do this with her so we have talked about why. She kept saying that the orgasms from the direct clitoral stimulation of oral were too intense. Interestingly enough, we have continued to start almost all our sessions with some digital stimulation and she loves this, though she usually cannot handle more than 1-3 orgasms this way. With IC, she often has 10 or more with no problem. We also frequently have “quickies” where we only do digital on her because she can have 3 orgasms in about 5 minutes.
Several months ago I decided to try some technique changes to encourage her to let me do oral more. Early in our relationship, when I did oral, I used to get my tongue inside her labial lips and do circular swirls around her clitoris and sometimes even get over it and “flick” it with my tongue. Since this was now too intense for her, I decided to simply gently work my tongue inside and then keep it still, letting her do the movement to stimulate the way she wants. This has been working quite well and she really can orgasm with very little movement. It is obvious, though, that her clitoris is MUCH more sensitive than it was a couple of years ago, because the vigorous tongue movement I used then would be very uncomfortable for her now.
Has anyone else had an experience like this of becoming much more sensitive over time?
taoist

I've always been very sensitive but I enjoy the intensity of it.
No. I haven't experienced this. I'm only more sensitive immediately after orgasm when my DH will then begin stimulating indirectly in order to continue our session.
Could there be reasons for the sensitivity that she might not be considering? Too tight clothing or underwear? Menopausal symptoms, perhaps? Some other factor which is keeping her vulva mildly irritated or stimulated?
Sounds like a moot point though, since you've found a way around it.