Ejaculation

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Registered: 11-02-2005
Ejaculation
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Thu, 11-10-2005 - 7:45pm
I've seen questions on this forum in regards to quantity, but my question is HOW do you guys (or ladies, your guys) ejaculate? I'm in my thirties and have never had a "forcefull" ejacuate that shoots out with any distance- just kind of erupts and dribbles. Just wondering if there are others like this or just me.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: curiousdon
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 8:13pm
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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: curiousdon
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 11:38pm

I've never seen any surveys or studies on the subject, but based on my own experience, I think you're like MOST men. The only time I've ever seen it "shoot" out is in porn, and we all know that most of that is faked. Even if it's NOT faked, the guy is there because he's NOT the norm!

Also, if you're inside a woman, she's never going to know the difference......

This is another one of those things about human beings. We're all different, and we are what we are.....so why worry about what others are? I take it that you're just curious, but sexual curiosity always seems to come from a position of "am I normal", and there's no such thing as "normal".

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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: curiousdon
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 7:00am
lot depends on how aroused us guys are, sometimes I can shoot a good 3 feet, but this is after a good hour of foreplay, penetration and oral, normally up to 1 foot is my distance.
After a week or so without relief I find that the ejaculation is much more sticky and the volume is much greater which will result in longer spurts in duration.
I have had partners that claim they can feel my ejaculation.
Hope this is of some help.
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Registered: 07-06-2004
In reply to: curiousdon
Fri, 11-11-2005 - 6:51pm

Other than watching porn, I have only seen one penis ejaculate. Most women have seen more different penis' shoot than we have.

I'm in my fourties and what used to shoot 4-5 feet is down to 3-4 feet. Women for some reason aren't into the distance semen can be tossed. Like a poster said, when it occurs inside a vagina few women can feel the difference between a dribble and a gusher. Most don't care about volume. As long as they can feel you left some wetness, it's fine.

As long as ejaculation occurs within a vagina, few women can feel the force or volume.

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Registered: 09-15-2004
In reply to: curiousdon
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 12:18am

DH cums very strongly the first time. He can usually go pretty far and even inside, his ejaculations are very strong.

The second burst is what is really big & powerfull... just a second after the first one.

I really like the way it throbs and gushes out with a force and then I love to milk it dry!!!

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Registered: 10-16-2005
In reply to: curiousdon
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 1:48am
Dribbles for DH here.



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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: curiousdon
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 8:34am

Not quite the exact same wording, but that throb/gush part you mentioned was quite similar to Mrs. Para's description at times too when recognizing those "eruption" orgasms different from my slow dribble ones.

If I'm able, which is getting more and more rare these days (getting older?, who knows), to go at it more than once during our intimate time together, then mine too has been noticeably different between each orgasm. Good point you raised.

 

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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: curiousdon
Sat, 11-12-2005 - 8:43am

Don,

Only thing I could add on to these other shared experiences from the replies is that, for , it does most of the time depend on if she & I are simply thrusting or if we're grinding during my orgasm. The deeper grinding is usually the one thats more forceful.

Needlesstosay, I've read that most men experience both, not just one, even if there is more times of one occurring more than the other.

 

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