Electronics for Sex: Cheating or Not?
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Electronics for Sex: Cheating or Not?
| Mon, 07-21-2008 - 8:58am |
Tell us if you think partaking in these activities with someone other than your partner is considered cheating to you or your partner:
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging)
*Blogging about sex or posting on message boards about sex
*Viewing pornography (non-interactive)
*Viewing interactive pornography or live web cams of strangers
*Reading or writing on-line erotica
*Forming relationships in multi-player role playing games like World of Warcraft, Second Life, or Sociolotron





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*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging)
Everyone has their own view of what "cheating" is, based on their own beliefs and insecurities!
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging) ~ That
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging) - Yes this is cheating in our marriage. It's interacting with another person in a sexual way...
*Blogging about sex or posting on message boards about sex - No, Neither of us blogs, but we do post opinions etc., on message boards - No, we don't consider this cheating.
*Viewing pornography (non-interactive) - No, it's not cheating. If there's nobody else involved, it's just masturbation.
*Viewing interactive pornography or live web cams of strangers. I don't think either of us has done this, but since it's interaction, I guess it could be cheating - Don't really know enough about it.
*Reading or writing on-line erotica - No - not cheating in any way shape or form
*Forming relationships in multi-player role playing games like World of Warcraft, Second Life, or Sociolotron - Again, I don;t know anything about it, but if it's sexual interaction it could be or could lead to cheating.
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging)
Tell us if you think partaking in these activities with someone other than your partner is considered cheating to you or your partner: These are my opinions..
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging)
Tell us if you think partaking in these activities with someone other than your partner is considered cheating to you or your partner:
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging)
If we are chatting about sex like we do here, telling stories passing information on how we can make it better, NO.
*Blogging about sex or posting on message boards about sex
Again If like I described in the first question then NO.
*Viewing pornography (non-interactive)
In our relationship its part of masturbation. In some cases its used to simulate the fantasy of us having sex at an Orgy. We are not really there and we are not having sex with the others just each other. So NO.
*Viewing interactive pornography or live web cams of strangers
YES. This one is pushing beyond what is acceptable to us.
*Reading or writing on-line erotica
Ahhh NO. We do this already and we don't mind telling what goes on in our bedroom or out of it. DW has a exhibitionist streak in her and does not mind if we are watched whether it be in text form, Pictures or Video. DW loves to read erotica and it makes her hot for me. When I partake in reading or viewing it gets me hot for her. It ends up better for both of us.
*Forming relationships in multi-player role playing games like World of Warcraft, Second Life, or Sociolotron
We don't play those games and this would not be a problem provided it did not become a SEX role playing situation.
-Gerry-
-Gerry-
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging) If it is cybersex with the other person, then yes, this is cheating. If you're chatting about sex and your likes and dislikes, then no, it is not cheating.
*Blogging about sex or posting on message boards about sex Posting on message boards like this is not cheating. Blogging, to me, seems more personal and more open, which is something that I would never do. I don't know if I'd equate it with cheating, but I'd feel uncomfortable doing it.
*Viewing pornography (non-interactive) No, this isn't cheating to me.
*Viewing interactive pornography or live web cams of strangers This isn't direct cheating, but it's geting close.
*Reading or writing on-line erotica No, not cheating at all. I love reading erotica and I write it as well (as does Master).
*Forming relationships in multi-player role playing games like World of Warcraft, Second Life, or Sociolotron This can be a sticky situation and it depends on the people involved. Master and I met online in a roleplaying game chatroom and you can get involved very quickly and very intensely. However, Master plays online RPGs and I don't discourage Him from doing so. It bothered me at first, not because I was afraid He was going to meet someone else on the game, but because I was afraid that it was going to take time away from U/us as a couple. But my fears were not justified and now I have no problems with Him playing the game. Yes, He has made friendships with people (one He even met IRL), but I am not going to tell Him to stop playing the game and chatting with people. One of the forums I belong to has a chatroom that I paerticipate in and He has not forbidden me to go there.
*Chatting privately about sex with someone you have met on-line (emailing, texting, instant messaging)
It depends on both the context and the content of those chats. Conversations like we have on the boards that are carried over to email would not constitute cheating, but anything that would fall into the realm of cybersex most definitely would.
*Blogging about sex or posting on message boards about sex
No
*Viewing pornography (non-interactive)
No
*Viewing interactive pornography or live web cams of strangers
Yes, this would constitute cheating in my relationship.
*Reading or writing on-line erotica
No
*Forming relationships in multi-player role playing games like World of Warcraft, Second Life, or Sociolotron
I don't play these type of games, so I've never formed an opinion about it.
-Gerry-
-Gerry-
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