Embarrassed By Doggy Style!
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Embarrassed By Doggy Style!
| Sun, 03-18-2007 - 10:15am |
My friend's favorite position is doggy style but she is always embarrassed that guys put their hands on her butt for their support and then have access to look at her butt hole. She thinks her butt hole is personal and isn't for guys to see. Is her embarrassment normal? Do other women who love doggy worry about having their butt holes exposed for guys to see or is it just her personal phobia?

It's her personal phobia. Since DS is probably the 3rd or 4th most popular position, I don't think most women think about it, let alone worry about it. When you think about it maturely, isn't the whole genital area "personal"? If you can share one part of it without embarassment, why not all of it?
If she thinks it's "personal", it's a sure bet she'll never try anal!
Being she feels this way, try to make it clear that you won't violate her then maybe she will be less embarrased as time goes on.
When DH and I first got together I was embarresed about that.
But hubby made it very clear that he loved every part or me.
He is very good at making me feel secure. Plus he says it's a
turn on. I don't get that but hey if he likes it then I don't need to worry about
it anymore.
Kareese