Enjoy watching your man?

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Registered: 06-27-2005
Enjoy watching your man?
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Mon, 07-11-2005 - 10:04am
I don`t know if this is just me but when I am having sex I really enjoy watching my BF come.
When he does it inside of me it is ok too, but I like to use my hand or mouth and then watch his juices flow, to me that is a very exciting moment. I love it when he erupts all over my hands and I can actually watch him. I have talked to my friends about his and they are split about 50-50. Some like it and a couple don`t want to be anywhere near their SO sperm. I personally love to watch and feel him when he comes.
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Registered: 06-15-2005
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 10:15am
That's good, I bet your man is happy about that. My girl isn't as big a fan of my juices as you are of your man's but she's warming up to it. I always wanted to finish on her and in her mouth but she's always reluctant to do so. But I can say that a couple of times I got to finish on her chest and it was good, really turns me on. Hopefully one day I'll get to finish where I want to.
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Mon, 07-11-2005 - 11:14am

I like feeling my DH ejaculate but I don't SEE his semen with oral though. And since we rarely finish via manual anymore, I don't actually see his semen as much, except for the drippage after intercourse.

I think all of us enjoy witnessing our loved one's orgasm.

But my DH isn't as keen about ejaculating outside my body, because according to HIM, he experienced that enough on his own, before marriage! LOL! He feels it's much much more exciting NOT to see his own ejaculate anymore!

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 11:15am

I'm happy to hear you're thinking "outside the box" ! (Pardon the very bad pun !)

I've been doing this for 40 years with a relatively-small number of women. Not every woman feels ejac during v sex and I've decided that "hand" feelings and the visual of ejac combine to create intense pleasure in some women. I knew a woman who could not c*m from any amount of handwork or "poke-ing" but when she saw me "get off" then she could instantly "c*m".

Hence you are not the only woman who enjoys watching her BF c*m. Now that I'm older its not the long-distance spurt that it was when I was 16. Its more like the slow-moving lava bubbling up out of the volcano's mouth to pour down the hillside and over her hand. My SO likes to feel the pulsations as I c*m.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 11:34am
It's rare when I see Dh's semen.

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 12:19pm
I find it very erotic....but I like variety as well.
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Registered: 06-27-2005
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 12:27pm
My favorite thing is to have him lay on the bed with his legs hanging over the end, I get between his legs and give him a very sensual handjob.
After teasing him I begin to pick up the tempo and my hands are pumping up and down like pistons until he explodes. I just love watching that moment when he erupts..I feel so much in control of him. I think a good handjob is a treat!
I can`t wait until he gets home today!!! lol
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Registered: 06-06-2005
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 1:41pm
i suppose its kinda kewl watching a man as he errupts whil im jacking him off, but mostly i let him cumm in my mouth he says it feels better and its alot less messy
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Mon, 07-11-2005 - 8:10pm

I can take it or leave it.


I don't, however, like it when he cums on my hands. I have a thing about anything wet or squishy between my fingers. (don't ask me about hand lotion, lol ... ewwwwww) I do it, as it pleases him and it is a sacrifice worth making, but usually i'm able to finish him off without it getting on my hands, lol.


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