Erectile dysfunction, dealbreaker?
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Erectile dysfunction, dealbreaker?
| Sat, 10-28-2006 - 2:13pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We're very much in love. We've been talking about getting married - and I know more than anything I want to spend my life building a life with him. We have one constant issue in our relationship however. Since we first met, he's struggled with erectile dysfunction. He says it first started at the end of his last relationship. He's seen a doctor and takes Viagra. However, it doesn't always help. He seems to believe its a mental issue - he fears failure because it's happened so many times and when that happens we can't well you know. When we first met I was a virgin. Though he is doing the things recommended to overcome this issue, I fear he won't and I will never experience that mind-blowing sexual experience so many talk of. Anyone been in a similar situation? Is it possible to overcome this mental block he talks of?

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There is SO MUCH more to sex for both partners that dont involve an erection.... and it can help to put more focus on the other aspects of sex and not just intercourse.... Let me know if you have any other questions... I will do my best...
With younger men, psychological problems are the likeliest reason for erectile dysfunction. Tension and anxiety may arise from poor communication with the sexual partner or a difference in sexual preferences.
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