Erection in his sleep...?

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Erection in his sleep...?
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Sun, 11-28-2004 - 7:16pm

Just out of curiosity... sometimes I play with my husband's penis when he's sound asleep. Within seconds it gets hard, while he continues to sleep (& snore sometimes). The hard-on even stays on for quite a while after I stop stimulating it. Just curious if you or your partner are like this as well?

(Although I "violated" him without his consent, I do confess the next morning... :o))

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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sun, 11-28-2004 - 7:54pm

Hi Rainbowbubble:

 

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 11-28-2004 - 11:56pm

All men past the age of puberty get several erections a night, whether anyone touches them or not. It has nothing to do with sex, or sexual dreams....it just happens. That's one of the tests for ED.....if they get erections in their sleep, but not when they're having sex, the problem isn't physical.....it's emotional.

When you touch him, it causes a natural response....obviously, if he's sound asleep, he's not aware you're doing it.

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Registered: 10-20-2003
Mon, 11-29-2004 - 5:55pm

This is a very natural reaction for a man. In fact my husband loves it because I will get him so hard that I can have him enter me before he wakes up and he says that it is the best way in the world to wake up anytime....lol.

Tigger

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 4:29am
hehe.. sounds like fun. I haven't tried penetration in his sleep yet, but definitely will! Just a thought, for some men who has 'performance problem', maybe their partner could try having some fun at night. :o)
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Registered: 12-24-2003
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:34am

Yeah, I get hard whilst asleep.

My ex- "violated" me once. I was sleeping on my side, and she nuzzled up spooning me. By the time I woke up she was working on getting me fully inside her.

Thank goodness I woke up in time! She needed help, so I grabbed her hips, slid the rest of the way in and let her go to town.

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Registered: 10-12-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 11:52am
hmm nice thought....unfortunately a loss of nocturnal erections is usually one of first signs of ed. :-o
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Registered: 10-07-2004
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 5:35pm

Hello Rainbow,

I do the samething to my husband, but I normally give him a bj, and he wake's up just in time, to give me a good drink if you know what I mean.

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 3:49pm
I, like most men get erections in my sleep and often wake to to the "morning wood" as a matter of fact, my erections seems to be the biggest and hardest in the night /early morning. Weird. Sometimes they are so hard they hurt! but it is nice to wake up to a morning bj from a sound sleep:-)