Erections, Let's Talk About THEM!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Erections, Let's Talk About THEM!
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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:14am

Earlier this morning, my DH had a lovely erection. :( We weren't able to use it at the time, but sitting here thinking about it still has me going.

I love everything about a penis that I can think of. The thing that I find odd is when he has an erection, I always want to "look" at it. Even if nothing else, I want to have a peek -- as if to make sure it's real (LOL).

Naturally, I also want to "feel" his erection too. Something about the sight of it leaves my mind to wonder how it would feel, or how it would be used. I find it oddly intriguing that I would wonder about such a familiar feeling, but I do still enjoy feeling this after all these years.



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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 9:51am

I'm not sure how many men would admit what I am about to write. Women seem much more comfortable admiring the female body than men do the male one.

Sometimes when I masturbate, I like to stop and just look at my erection. An erection is almost miraculous...but then, so is IC in general. My penis is soft and just hangs there, then it rises up and gets ready to do it's thing! I am 100% hetero, but I can appreciate the masculinity and eroticism of an erection. It's a part of my body that says so much about who I am, how I relate to others, how I relate to women.

I think erections are one of the great wonders of nature. So is how a female gets wet, her labia expand, and she gets ready for penetration. So are penetration, thrusting, orgasm. Sex is one of the great wonders of nature.

Sexual intercourse happens probably a billion times a day, but it doesn't diminish the wonder.

Greg

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 10:03am

You go Greg! Admitting that doesn't impinge on your masculinity at all as far as I am concerned. I think all women appreciate a man that is in touch with what he really feels!

And ITA with you too. Sex is one of the greatest wonders of nature.

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Registered: 05-14-2006
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 10:41am
We have been married for 39 years and it's been that way pretty much from the beginning. Our shower is in view of the bed and if she is lying in bed and I step out of the shower, usually she doesn't even glance at me. If she does glance at me then I know I'm likley to 'get lucky' *S* I sure glance at her when she steps out of the shower. *S*
I wish she was more into sex but other than that she is the finest human being God ever made.
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Registered: 05-11-2007
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 1:16pm

Aww you sound sweet. Its great that you still think that way about your wife. It would appear to me that she may have a bit lower libido that you do and she knows you well enough that if she admires you, that you are going to initiate sex and she is just avoiding that by not looking. Sounds to me like she DOES still like the way you look from the way you put it.

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Registered: 08-11-2001
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 5:20pm

I have to say I love to be erect. It is amazing. When I am soft I have a penis, when I am erect I have an erection. It is like I have two seperate body parts in one. The character of my erect penis is so different from the charactor of my soft penis.

When I am erect I can see my heart beat because my erection tremors with each beat. I like the feeling of having my erection standing straight out from my body and how it bounces when I walk.

This is going to sound crazy, but haveing an erection gives me a sense of power and completness. I feel like an erection empowers me to do what I was created for, have intercourse with my wife.

My wife hates to look at my penis and she especialy hates to see my penis erect. However when I slide it into her, she is in love with it and it becomes the only thing she pays attention to. That is what brings the sense of power. I can change my wife from a woman who complains about sex into an agreesive sex partner just by putting sliding my erection into her. It is really amazing.

Having an erection is just wonderful.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 5:43pm

Yes Misty,


Soft, warm, perfectly shaped when firmly erected.


Just lovely....

Mrs P

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 6:59pm
Sure like the way you think and the topics it "brings up" lol
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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 9:37pm
Sorry to hear your DW isn't into the visuals. I do enjoy looking at DH at all times, but I definitely enjoy it when he is erect the most.


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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 9:40pm
Hooray for your Hottie! I love morning sex, but don't get to have it nearly often enough.


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Thu, 06-07-2007 - 9:47pm
Greg, you're so right about these being 'wonders'! But, I don't think it's unusual for a man to admire his erection, or be amazed by it. I think women would be just as amazed if they were able to easily see their genitals.


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