Erections, Let's Talk About THEM!

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Erections, Let's Talk About THEM!
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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:14am

Earlier this morning, my DH had a lovely erection. :( We weren't able to use it at the time, but sitting here thinking about it still has me going.

I love everything about a penis that I can think of. The thing that I find odd is when he has an erection, I always want to "look" at it. Even if nothing else, I want to have a peek -- as if to make sure it's real (LOL).

Naturally, I also want to "feel" his erection too. Something about the sight of it leaves my mind to wonder how it would feel, or how it would be used. I find it oddly intriguing that I would wonder about such a familiar feeling, but I do still enjoy feeling this after all these years.



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Registered: 11-15-2006
Thu, 06-21-2007 - 7:12am

LOL, I oftn think that I have a case of Penis Worship. Not penis envy but WORSHIP.
I can look ay my dh naked in any state of arousal or not and get aroused. I love to watch the changes in his body. Sometimes I feel a bit silly because I can go on and on telling him all the things I love about his penis. I sometimes appologize for being so obsessed with it but he doesn't seem to mind my obsession!

One specific thing that gets me when he is hard there is the line where he goes from pink to red, about half way up. He says that is where the sensitivity gets more intense. Ummmmnnnn.



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Thu, 06-21-2007 - 8:02am

I'm with you on the WORSHIP boat!!!! I know if DH could leave his with me all day, it would have sores on it by the time he got home (LOL).

Hmmmm, the line from pink to red, about half way up ... that sounds like something to check out. I know DH reacts to the skin pulled up to his glans when being stroked. I'm also assuming the line is created when the foreskin is cut from there. It would make sense that the area covered by the foreskin would be more sensitive.



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Thu, 06-21-2007 - 8:12am

"Now as an adult, what are general attitudes of erections? Do women look a lot? I have had erections at work- should this be embrarasing, or just a normal part of life? If I make a joke about it, is that inappropriate conversation/ sexual harrasment? Should I just ignore it?"



I think the attitude depends on a lot of circumstances. If I'm at a bar and notice a hunk of a guy with a bulge, that's a turn on. On the other hand, if the annoying guy in the next cubicle at work is sporting one in his pants, it would probably be a turn off. Especially in the work place, I think you should ignore it. Sexual harassment is a pretty serious violation, and many things can be deemed as such.




"What about during a massage? The women who have done it have usually seen my erection. One lady I apologized, but another I have kept quiet. Which is the right response?"



I'm sure they have seen many erections in their profession. I think it would be more appropriate to keep quiet about it. Bringing attention to it, even in the form of an apology, is probably inappropriate.




"I agree with a previous poster that it does make you feel your manhood. Do women feel more feminine when they have wet panties?"



I don't feel more feminine with wet panties. Being aroused doesn't necessarily make me feel feminine.



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Registered: 11-15-2006
Thu, 06-21-2007 - 8:51am

It is too far down to have been anything to do with the foreskin being cut. It totally disapears when he is not erect. I just think this area is filled with more blood vessels. Kind of like our labia, when females get aroused, it can turn brighter. Something else to gaze (and graze) upon!



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Thu, 06-21-2007 - 9:14am

DH does have such a line, and it also disappears when he is not erect. I always assumed it was from where the foreskin was attached. Perhaps the line is formed because that skin (above the line) is not exposed unless erect. Don't know.

It would be interesting if some guys could chime in here and let us know! I wonder if those that still have foreskin have such a line?



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Registered: 05-11-2007
Thu, 06-21-2007 - 12:51pm
I'll check for that line on my boyfriend next time he is home LOL. He's uncircumsized. He won't care if I examine him closely :) It would be MY PLEASURE hehe.
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Thu, 06-21-2007 - 3:49pm

I knew someone would take one for the team!!!

We'll be waiting for your report :-D



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Registered: 11-26-2006
Thu, 06-21-2007 - 4:35pm

Do you ladies prefer "instant" erections or do you like to work at it a bit to go from soft to hard?

I've always gone from totally limp to hard-as-a-rock in about 5 seconds and I can stay hard for a long time. I still do even though I'm middle aged. My DW doesn't seem to mind at all.

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Fri, 06-22-2007 - 4:36am
Can I join the Penis Worship bandwagon. I love looking at SO's penis, in all states. It's a shame I don't get to see it more often lol.

 


 


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 8:11am
They're all great. Sometimes it's fun to have to work at making one hard, but quickly hard is nice too!


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