Erotic Vacation - need help

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Registered: 02-14-2005
Erotic Vacation - need help
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Wed, 10-26-2005 - 4:01pm

Hi All:

I haven’t posted in a long time, but still love reading the boards when I get a minute. Just so busy with work. Thank God I have a great man, a great marriage, and a great sex life. Which brings me to our dilemma.

Can anyone recommend some great erotic travel destinations/resorts? Clubs where people engage in live sex would be of interest as well (we are in the Northern NJ/NYC area). Must be classy, not sleazy!! DH and I are not interested in swapping; however we want to experience an erotic environment where we can watch and be among others while having our own experiences. Porn has always been a great turn on for us, but we really want to experience a live environment. We don’t want to go to a “lifestyles” resort and be hit on constantly (I don’t mean to be conceited, but both DH and I would be hit on big time, and it just is not something either of us has an interest in – we’ve got an exceptionally good and exclusive thing). We have found several resorts on-line, but we would really like recommendations. Unfortunately, the resorts that appear to appeal to us seem to be for swingers. They say that “no” means “no”, but you never know.

Are we asking for something that just doesn’t exist? Do you have to be in for a penny, in for a pound? That would ruin what we are looking to experience.

Please post or e-mail (preferable since I cannot always get to the boards) any suggestions or experiences. They would be greatly appreciated. We have been discussing this for years, and really want to act on it.

Thanks so much,

Bern

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Avatar for katmandoo2001
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-31-2005 - 2:39pm

No, such a place doesn't exist. At least, not without some sort of binding agreement to prevent possible solicitations from others when you sign in to such a place, it doesn't.
And since you simply cannot dictate or control what someone else's motives for being there might be, that's not likely.

I would agree with the other poster who suggested finding another like-minded couple or group that you can share this desire with.




Edited 10/31/2005 3:53 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 05-02-2005
Mon, 10-31-2005 - 4:46pm
Replied to the wrong person.
Good luck.


Edited 11/1/2005 3:19 pm ET by darth-bob
Avatar for katmandoo2001
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-31-2005 - 8:01pm
I think you misunderstood my stance on the subject or your response was meant for someone else. My Dh and I have NO interest in sharing our intimate lives with anyone, in ANY way.

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